? Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty, turned her husband around twice.
On 20 10, a series of performances of Xunpai Peking Opera were held in Shanghai Yifu Stage, with Zhuo Wenjun as the first. For thousands of years, the love story of Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru has been sung in China. The main reason is people's recognition of talented woman Zhuo Wenjun's love view and praise for her wisdom. In particular, she made her husband Sima Xiangru finally turn around twice at the critical moment when love was on the verge of breaking down, and her fiery and tender personality won praises from previous dynasties.
Zhuo Wenjun, a native of Lin Qiong in the Western Han Dynasty, was a talented woman in the Han Dynasty. She is beautiful, intelligent, proficient in poetry and good at playing the piano.
Zhuo Wenjun lived in the era of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, and his father Zhuo Wangsun was a local tycoon. Zhuo Wenjun was only 17 years old. The book describes her beauty as "her eyebrows are like mountains, her face is often like hibiscus, and her skin is as smooth as fat". Moreover, she is good at playing the piano and her literary talent is extraordinary. Originally, she was a woman everyone hoped for, but because her father arranged a political marriage, she was betrothed to an emperor, and her life soon fell to the bottom, because the emperor was a patient and did not stay.
Sima Xiangru was a famous ci writers and musician in the Western Han Dynasty. But in his early years, his family was poor and his parents died, which was not successful. His life at that time was not an elegant collection of piano books, poetry and wine, and boundless romance. Unable to stand on his own feet, he came to Lin Qiong, a small border county with confused hopes, and took refuge in Wang Ji, a good friend of the county magistrate. He was very frustrated and down and out.
Zhuo Wangsun has contacts with Wang Jiduo. One day, Zhuo Wangsun entertained Ji Wang at home, and Sima Xiangru was invited. During the dinner, it is inevitable to play music. Sima Xiangru learned that Zhuo Wenjun, the daughter of Zhuo Wangsun, was beautiful and literary, so he played a song "Phoenix Begging for Phoenix".
Zhuo Wenjun also longed for Sima Xiangru's talent for a long time, so he hid behind the curtain and eavesdropped. The courtship in the piano was recognized and the two fell in love. However, it was strongly obstructed by Zhuo Wangsun. Can't, regardless of bad blood and hakodate, Zhuo Wenjun eloped to the guest house in Sima Xiangru, and simply returned to his hometown in Sima Xiangru, Chengdu the next day.
This is probably the bravest and most touching elopement in China's love story. Elopement on a Snowy Night is not Zhuo Wenjun's spontaneity and willfulness, but that she has confidence, believes in her own vision and is responsible for her choice. For this matter, Zhuo Wangsun is of course furious, thinking that Sima Xiangru is disgraceful, and his baby daughter is too disappointing, eloping on a snowy night, ruining his family style and making him lose face; More importantly, Sima Xiangru is a poor man.
Because of Sima Xiangru's lofty sentiments, it is difficult to sell wine, and the wine we drank today. Zhuo Wenjun also put on a cloth skirt and started a new life. A few months later, they simply sold their horses and chariots, returned to their parents' home in Lin Qiong, rented a room opposite their parents' home and opened a small hotel. Zhuo Wenjun wears light make-up and plain make-up, and when selling wine, Sima Xiangru puts on leg-plate-nose pants, washes dishes with the bartender and servants, and runs errands in the fields.
Zhuo Wenjun is a rare woman who has no vanity, and Sima Xiangru is also a rare scholar who has not felt inferior and ashamed because of poverty and frustration.
This is a big news in Lin Qiong, which immediately caused a sensation far and near. The small hotel was crowded and very lively. Unable to withstand the persuasion of relatives and friends, Zhuo Wangsun had to give them 100 children and servants, 1 million dollars, and prepared a dowry to take away the son-in-law who cooked raw rice. Some people say that this is Sima Xiangru's "shameless" style, forcing his face-saving father-in-law to submit. It can also be seen that Sima Xiangru is not as poor as ordinary literati, and has great pride. This may be an important reason why Zhuo Wenjun loves him deeply. From then on, the young couple lived a leisurely life of drinking and playing the piano all day.
At this time, Sima Xiangru wrote the brilliant Zi Xufu and Shang. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was overjoyed and admired, and worshipped Sima Xiangru as a Langguan.
At that time, the situation in Bashu and Bashu was unstable. Sima Xiangru used a clever pen and an essay to explain the stakes, and promised to offer a reward to eliminate the danger. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty was overjoyed, so he worshipped him as a corps commander, held a sacrifice and went to the southwest frontier to publicize and comfort the barbarians. Sima Xiangru returned to Chengdu with great fanfare. After meeting Zhuo Wenjun, head southwest. Of course, we must visit all parts of Lin Qiong. Local officials greeted them one after another, and the people cheered, which really impressed my father-in-law, Zhuo Wang Sun, and felt that her daughter was really "full of talents".
After Sima Xiangru's persuasion, all ethnic groups in the southwest obeyed, and Sima Xiangru's work in the Han Dynasty was worth improving. However, due to his scholar's opinion, he wrote a letter to stop the hunting of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, and ironically persuaded him to obstruct the interests of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty. Later, he only got a lofty and idle official position.
When Sima Xiangru left home to be an official, Zhuo Wenjun waited for him alone in the empty years. Years passed, time flies, and five years passed unconsciously. In these five years, the amorous Zhuo Wenjun yearned for her husband's letter, but she didn't expect that what she finally expected was a letter with thirteen numbers of "one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, hundred, thousand and ten thousand".
Clever Wen Jun read the letter again and again, and finally understood her husband's meaning. There is no "billion" in the picture, which means that he has no "meaning" to her, but it is hard to say clearly. At that time, Zhuo Wenjun was sad and resentful, and immediately wrote a letter to call someone back. The content of the letter is written like this:
"After a farewell, the two places were lovesick, saying it was March and April, but a farewell was five or six years. The lyre has no intention to play, the eight-part essay cannot be passed down, and the nine-ring chain breaks from it. Shiliting is anxious to see. All kinds of grievances, all kinds of thoughts, and all kinds of helplessness are strange.
I'm tired of having a thousand words to say. Chongyang climbs to see the lonely geese, and the full moon in August is not round. In July and a half, I burned incense and held candles to ask the sky. In the dog days of June, everyone shakes my heart. In May, durian is like fire, drenching flowers. In April, loquat turned yellow. I want to be confused about the mirror. Peach blossoms follow the water in March, and kite strings break in February. Hey! Lang Lang, I really hope that you are a woman and I am a man in the next life. "
Sima Xiangru opened Wen Jun's letter, which turned out to be a poem connected by numbers. Sima Xiangru watched it several times in a row, and the more he watched it, the more ashamed he felt, and the more sorry he felt for his spoony wife. Think that year, Zhuo Wenjun married him not too poor to fall in love with the rich, and lived a hungry and cold life. Now he wants to give up his rich wife, which is really not what a gentleman did, so he made up his mind to repent and finally got back to Zhuo Wenjun face to face.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. Sima Xiangru is not only a romantic gentleman, but also a man. He can't escape the temptation of men in the world of mortals after all. As the saying goes, "enthusiasm and lust, hunger and cold, will steal your heart." Sima Xiangru is very talented, but he can't escape the man's nature. When he ended his life, he often played in the powder pile. For all this, Zhuo Wenjun still endured the pain. It was not until Sima Xiangru asked the Maoling woman to be his concubine that Zhuo Wenjun wrote the famous "White-headed Songs" with grief and indignation. In the poem, she wrote:
As the snow on the mountain and the moon in the clouds, I heard that you have two opinions, so I came to refuse each other.
Today, when fighting against the Party, it is clear that the ditch is at the head, and the ditch water flows east and west.
Very sad and sad, don't cry when you get married. You should be single-minded and unwilling to leave each other.
Bamboo sticks curl up, fish migrate, men are loyal, why use money knives?
And attach a book: Chunhua, five colors, Qin is still imperial, and the new sound replaces the old! Jinshui has a honeymoon period, and the Han Palace has water. This is new, and the embarrassing people in the world don't know!
Then two more sentences were added: "Zhu Xian is broken, the mirror is missing, the morning dew is exposed, the fragrance is resting, the bald head is singing, and the injury is leaving. Try to add rice without thinking about concubines, Jinshui Tang Tang, you are long!"
Zhuo Wenjun's sorrowful Poem of Bald Head and his sorrowful Farewell Book made Sima Xiangru feel unbearable. Thinking of the benefits of tenderness and consideration in those years, he was moved by Zhuo Wenjun's intelligence and pure love, so he changed his mind and they lived a happy life.
They settled in Linquan and spent another 10 year of love. Sima Xiangru died suddenly, and Zhuo Wenjun finally tasted the loneliness of the widow. Looking back, I suddenly had a dream. In the second year of late autumn, Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru went to the grave together.
What is "love"? It has been performed on the stage for thousands of years, and it has been circulated among people for thousands of years, but no one can give a definite answer, because love varies from person to person, it is just a feeling, just a moment of scratching-heartbeat and trembling.
However, what kind of love can be without mistakes? What kind of love can last forever? What kind of love can have no regrets?
Wen Junjing in Qionglai, Sichuan has a couplet:
You can't see the rich prince and grandson, but Huo Zhi added a few lines of incense history to his biography; Stop to pick up the past, ask where the beauty is fragrant, and leave the sunset in the broken well; The cliff knows that it is hard to meet; The most pitiful, Qing Xiang, bald, resentment.
I am also tired of Sima's travel and how much leisure I have caused on the road in Lin Qiong; Leaning against the wine railing, sighing about the romantic life of celebrities in those days, and eliminating the autumn rain in Maolin; Since ancient times, poets should beware of prosperity; Let's not talk about it any more. Sold the suicide note of Fu and Feng Chan.
This is love, Zhuo Wenjun-style love.
Love is also a process, a process that requires the joint efforts of both sides. Zhuo Wenjun is clever. She used her wisdom to save her husband's escape several times. Zhuo Wenjun is also happy, Sima Xiangru finally did not violate the original promise; In the end, they didn't abandon their initial love and final persistence. Zhuo Wenjun dare to love and hate, let go. At the beginning, he eloped to Sima Xiangru and sold wine for a tune, regardless of his home. Later, if you want to take a concubine, you will be decisive and sarcastic, and you will not hesitate to break up to complete your love. The love story between Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun is a rare example in China: an independent and responsible woman finally got the love and life she wanted. "eloping on a snowy night", "selling wine as a pawn" and "growing old together" are legendary love stories.
When a woman meets a man she really loves, she should learn from Zhuo Wenjun, strive for it and never give up. In marriage, when a man is confused by the outside world, don't just pour all the anger and resentment on him and lose his mind. If you still love this man deeply, you should touch him with your affection and love, call him back, let him know what you can tolerate and what you can never tolerate, let him know the weight of love, and distinguish right from wrong in your kindness. Only in this way can you keep your marriage and let two people who really love each other live together forever.
Such a weak woman, who is carrying a heavy load under the feudal ethics, can win a place for her love and marriage under such a heavy historical background. I think such women, even in today's society, can be said to be rare and rare. Even today, Zhuo Wenjun is still an admirable woman. She has made the best annotation for "believe in yourself", and can even serve as an example for modern women.
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