Directly suggest breaking up. Different values together can be painful, and it is difficult to maintain a long-term relationship. Long pain is better than short pain.
How to judge whether two people's values are similar is a difficult problem. Maybe in daily life, some words and actions will be revealed. You are invited to have a deep conversation. Values is an abstract concept, but it runs through all aspects of our lives, from eating together, what to eat, who to eat with, when to eat together, how much to spend, who to pay, and so on.
Marriage is different from love. Marriage is related to two families, and the family atmosphere and parents' values have great influence. If you want to get married, think it over before deciding whether to get married or not!
A good friend of mine has never had a conflict since he was a child. They both have a daughter who is very happy, but a painful thing happened later this year, because the boy's mother doesn't like children and doesn't like cooking, because his daughter-in-law is the second child and takes care of her daughter. Finally, the doctor told her that she was tired, maybe tired or malnourished! Such a mother-in-law, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad, and the final outcome is divorce. During the divorce, the boy couldn't find an account, and his mother helped him find it. You said it was annoying.
Whether it's appropriate or not, we won't know until we get along for a long time Ask your heart! what do you think?
And love. After getting along for a period of time, I think it can be good, and then the important issue of getting married. At that time, my boyfriend's family conditions were not very good. I said that for the first time, we will slowly repay the mortgage. Even if the house is smaller, I just want to have a home of my own after marriage. But he wants to buy it again every two years. I knew there were so many things to get married, and I was never short of money. I don't know when it will be two years. I asked for a house and a deposit, but I was wrong on this issue. Finally, we broke up for a month. I thought it was over. He asked me if I wanted to buy it, and we got married.
I was just asking myself, can we break up? Can I give up? My boyfriend is very kind to me. I really feel that breaking up is very painful. He didn't give up. I think since I can't let go of that knot, I'll get married decisively! I have no regrets. I am seven months pregnant. Although life is not easy, it is also very happy!