People who are really powerful have long given up these four poor people's thinking.
There is a kind of people who are complacent and opinionated. They tend to be single-minded, and they are used to looking at things with either-or thinking and evaluating a person and a thing, whether it is good or bad.
They are empiricists and are used to pretending to be experienced people. Anything that conflicts with existing ideas will often be rejected. When you say that people can't be lazy, they tell you that people can't be overtired.
What can such people do in life if they stick to the rules and always think in a fixed way?
Dude, you can't frame yourself.
Zhu once said, "If you want to be lively and bold, you must play dumb."
Only by being flexible and jumping out of fixed thinking can everything go smoothly and the road be smooth.
Put a crab in a bucket, and the crab will climb out on its own.
But if you put a lot of crabs on it, none will climb out. Because the crabs below will pull the crabs above desperately, and no one can get out in the end.
I can't get well, and neither can you. Might as well stay in the dark abyss together. This is a typical "crab thinking".
There is an old saying that the upper level helps others, the middle level squeezes others, and the lower level tramples on others.
When Huawei launched its own HarmonyOS system, some people boldly predicted: "HarmonyOS system may become the terminator of Android."
Ren Zheng Fei said publicly in an interview: "In the future, we will not only replace Android, but also support the development of Android."
In a word, there are many tricks.
The weak tear at each other and cannot move; The strong help each other and achieve each other.
Fools build walls, and they are separated from morality; Strong bridge, across others, but also across themselves.
As the writer Lin Qingxuan wrote in "Send him a bright moon":
We always maintain a kind, tolerant and clear heart, not to mention the possibility of sending a bright moon and multiple bright moons at the same time.
Because the bright moon is not a gift, but a reflection of each other, which can reflect each other's light.
It is far more meaningful for people to achieve each other than to fight each other.
There is a short story in Harvard Family Instructions: Henry lives in a poor family. He is very talented in football and highly valued by his coach. Once, a friend introduced Henry to do odd jobs, and/kloc-0 earned $3.25 an hour.
Henry is very excited, which means that his life is no longer so tense.
After the coach learned his idea, he said angrily:
In the future, you will have a lifetime to work. However, how many days can I participate in the competition?
Is a dream worth $3.25 an hour?
Henry woke up and threw himself into training. After graduating from college, he joined the famous Denver Broncos and became a dazzling star.
Obviously, Henry had a short-sighted thinking before.
For short-sighted people, immediate benefits are more affordable. I hold the ideal of wealth all my life, but I can't stand the long tempering period and am afraid of endless struggle. So I chose to enjoy the present relaxation, only to repeat the mistakes of the previous generation.
Efforts without foresight are futile.
Not greedy for small profits, long-term vision; Do not speculate, only pave the way for high probability; Don't give up, gain the ability to compound interest and lay the foundation for the future.
Life is like snowballing, as long as you find enough wet snow and long slopes.
Some people are unhappy in life, that is, they fall into the trap of negative thinking.
Many times, instead of thinking about how to change their present situation, they waste great energy on unimportant things, feeling that God doesn't care for themselves and is not satisfied with the people and things around them. Let's talk about the right and wrong of this and the embarrassing thing of that first.
They even complained to their parents: How could they meet such parents? They have no power or influence, and they are not rich.
If you don't work hard, you can't grasp the opportunity, and even all the happiness and happiness you actually have can't be satisfied. Imagine how such a person can find the energy to do something to change the status quo.
Kazuo inamori, a famous Japanese industrialist, once wrote in the book Way of Thinking:
People who live a happy life hold a positive way of thinking. Even if others seem to be in a disaster, they are still optimistic, cheerful and positive, and even regard the disaster as an opportunity to promote their growth, so they are grateful. With this mentality, there will be a turning point in life.
Treasure, cloth, silks and satins, houses and shops are not enough. Only positive thinking is the fundamental way to have a positive life.