Love always appears quietly in our lives. When we meet love, our hearts are excited and sweet. However, even the best love will lose its innocence one day.
Some love comes and goes quickly, while others can accompany us for a lifetime. When love continues in our life, we will gradually substitute it for marriage.
When deciding to get married, I believe that most people get married for love. Then when choosing this marriage, those who are carried away by love always lack consideration, and on impulse, they soon entered the marriage hall with each other.
However, after years of marriage destruction, love will slip away from you quietly, just like when it comes, which makes you unprepared. At this time you find that life is not what you want, and you regret it.
When Guo Xiaoxiao met her husband, she was attracted by his high looks and heard that his family was rich, so she wanted to seize the opportunity to be with him.
When we first started together, men always whispered sweet words in her ear, which also made her show her true feelings to men and believe that she had met love.
The man also told her that after she got married, she didn't need to go out to work, just lived at home. Guo Xiaoxiao naively thought that she not only married love, but also married a rich husband.
Blind confidence in love, full of yearning for marriage. She didn't want men to think she was a money worshipper. She was attracted by his money, so when she got married, she volunteered not to pay the bride price or buy a new house. Repeatedly stressed to the man that he married him because he loved him.
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After getting married, she immediately quit her job, washed and cooked for her husband at home and became a housewife. She thinks she can live a carefree life, without having to work, with a husband she loves.
As a result, married life is far from what she imagined. After marriage, the man never gave her a penny and never cared about how her life was going.
When she needs money to reach out to her husband, the man always says sarcastically, "I don't look at my virtue either, I want to support you for nothing." After the irony, I threw her some pocket money and sent her away like a beggar.
And Guo Xiaoxiao, facing her husband's two faces before and after marriage, dare not complain. She also thought about divorce, but she had nothing, and she had at least one mouth to eat with this man. After the divorce, she has no job for the time being, and I'm afraid even life has become difficult.
A woman's greatest sorrow is not meeting love rat, but after meeting love rat, you dare not ask for a divorce, because you have to live in love rat.
A woman chooses a sad marriage because of a moment of confusion, which will only ruin her life. However, no one will pay for your wrong choice.
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When choosing a marriage, you should leave yourself a way out.
When Guo Xiaoxiao chose marriage, she was carried away by love and lost herself by money. Therefore, her marriage is not happy, not only unfortunate, but even painful.
Here, we have to say that the bride price that women want in the face of marriage is still very important. When it comes to making some demands, they still have to make their own demands without violating common sense. Propose, not for anything else, just to leave a way out for yourself.
When we get married, we don't mean to think about divorce, but the reality doesn't allow us not to think about it. When you choose the wrong marriage, you don't have a certain economic foundation, and you don't even have the right to file for divorce.
Once divorced, you have nothing. First of all, life becomes the biggest problem. If you leave yourself a way out before you get married, you can turn around and leave when you get divorced.
Of course, we don't have to ask men to retire, we can also retire ourselves. Continue to work after marriage to make women live more confident.
In life, we can find that many women still insist on working after marrying into a rich family. Who doesn't know that sitting at home is more comfortable, and who wants to work hard outside from nine to five every day, not only to establish family status for themselves, but also to avoid being looked down upon by her husband and complained by her mother-in-law because she has no financial resources.
Therefore, women should not naively think that if they marry a rich family, they will not have to work. If you don't need to work under special circumstances, you should also put forward some conditions with your husband as a guarantee for marriage.
In marriage, the results that need to be considered must not be vague. It's not that everyone should get divorced before they get married, but some things are beyond our control. You should plan ahead for your future.
If we are lucky enough to meet a happy marriage, everything will be fine, and we will do our duty as a wife and do our part in marriage life.
May every girl who has reached marriageable age meet a romantic love and a warm and happy marriage all her life.