The most important thing for a woman is her son.

Xiaoyu is only 24 years old this year, married, and now pregnant with her own flesh and blood for more than two months, all because she met her current husband Linda. Linda is five years older than her. She runs her own business and has a good family condition. Most importantly, he tried to pursue Xiaoyu and obeyed her, so Xiaoyu thought he had found the true love of his life. At her best age of 24, she decided to marry Linda. At the beginning, her parents also advised her that although she could get married at the age of 24, there was no hurry. She can wait another two years and think about it, but Xiaoyu, who was in love at that time, couldn't listen to her parents. She just wants to marry Linda as soon as possible. At that time, Linda's mother was also kind to her, and said that Xiaoyu would marry Linda soon and would love Xiaoyu as her own daughter. Therefore, Xiaoyu has no worries. After the two decided, they immediately got a marriage certificate and the wedding was held three months later. But Xiaoyu never imagined that the amiable mother-in-law who said that she would treat herself like her own daughter was completely changed after marriage. She couldn't help letting Xiaoyu do everything, forcing her to obey her command completely. To put it bluntly, she has no freedom of her own, and everything should be subject to her mother-in-law's wishes. How can a young girl like Xiaoyu stand it? In her mind, marriage is to enjoy life, not to suffer. Now she is so bound by her mother-in-law that she dare not go out at home without her own freedom. What's the difference between going to jail? Xiaoyu had the idea of escaping, and suddenly found herself pregnant for two months, which made her suddenly have no idea, whether to continue to endure or choose divorce. When she was struggling with what to do, her mother-in-law gave her a choice. That day, my mother-in-law said that the house was dirty and messy, and Xiaoyu was asked to clean it all. Xiaoyu directly refused. Now that she is a pregnant woman, how can she finish cleaning this house by herself? Moreover, her mother-in-law knows that she is pregnant and will not let her go. Facing Xiaoyu's dissatisfaction, her mother-in-law just smiled and said, "What happened to pregnant women? Pregnant women should lie down and be taken care of? You got married to work, not to enjoy happiness. If you are not interested, you will never have a good life in the future. " Seeing her mother-in-law's face, Xiaoyu was angry and sad. She thinks she is stupid enough to believe their stories. She made such a decision that ruined her life at a young age. In order to stop the loss in time, Xiaoyu made a crazy decision, that is, to abort the baby in her belly and then divorce. She knows that although her mother-in-law doesn't like her, she still pays more attention to the baby in her belly, which is her revenge on her mother-in-law. Xiaoyu will never forget the painful feeling when she went to the hospital to have an abortion. Anyway, this is her own child, but there is no way. She didn't want the child to be born and suffer with her, so she might as well not be born. When she filed for divorce, her mother-in-law looked incredulous and asked, "Are you really determined to divorce your child?" Xiaoyu said directly: "I have already knocked out the child. I don't want him to be born in such an unfortunate family and suffer with me. Are you satisfied? " Looking at her mother-in-law's incredible expression, Xiaoyu felt extremely Japanese, and her mother-in-law was doomed to pay for her actions. In fact, there is really no need for a family to go to the point of larger foe. Why not be more tolerant? It's good for everyone. What is the most accurate choice in marriage and life? Maybe no one can be sure. This situation may be difficult for anyone, but it is also a big decision to make a woman give up and squeeze the child dry. The consequences of things are completely beyond the original sweetness. It is a situation that everyone will encounter when they meet unhappy people. After all, people are separated, but how to solve these problems is the most important decision in everyone's mind. When the power is in your own hands, everything will have other ideas, but in any case, you must follow your heart. It is not easy for people to live a lifetime, so we must enjoy life according to our own ideas! For a woman, the most important thing is Shu Xian, the eldest sister-in-law of her son Red Sorghum. She is a widow guarding the chastity archway. Several uncles in the husband's family are all up to no good, and they always threaten to bully from time to time. If there is no male department in this family, then the family property and the head of the family should change hands. So Jiu-Er's pregnancy was highly anticipated by her eldest sister-in-law. In fact, their future is in jeopardy, and it is on the unborn child. Therefore, when the midwife gave birth to a baby girl, everyone completely ignored the little girl's film and was overjoyed to sharpen the knife and divide the property. Unexpectedly, Jiu-Er was pregnant with twins. After a narrow escape, the midwife took out another son. A group of people were happy and broke up in discord. Jiu-Er gave birth to a son, which gave the single family an heir, but shook Shu Xian's position. In order to keep the right to be the master of the country, Shu Xian framed Jiu-Er many times, hoping to keep the children for himself. The last two sisters-in-law put aside their disputes. Because of the protection or asylum of the legal heir, I have regained my foothold and have the right to speak and exercise rules. The same is true of Zhou Ying played by Sun Li in "Flowers Bloom that Year". She tried to carve out her own path among men and become the head of the family. Then he claimed his adopted son. Maybe she has a clear family and it's not easy to adopt her daughter as a master. She didn't want her resistance to happen again. So is the royal family, and so is the family. Even in the cold. Jin Zhiying's grandmother can be said to be the person in charge of this work. On the other hand, Jin Zhiying's grandfather never touched a handful of soil in his life. This is incredible for that era of working for food and clothing. Grandma thinks that as long as grandpa doesn't philander outside and has no domestic violence, he is already a perfect husband. As for whether it is hard or not, it doesn't matter. She has four sons. This is enough to make her stand up straight with confidence and have fun in suffering. Even though her three sons were unwilling to raise her for various reasons, she kept instilling in Jin Zhiying's mother: You must have two sons anyway, so that you can die. Therefore, after giving birth to Jin Enying and Jin Zhiying, Jin Zhiying's mother kept bowing to apologize to her mother-in-law. Even after the triplets were found to be girls by ultrasound, they silently went to the hospital to remove Zhiying's sister. After Jin Zhiying became pregnant, she subconsciously hoped that her first child would be a boy. If nothing else, it is to be able to get rid of the shackles of "carrying on the family line" a little bit. You see, does the family story that happened in Jin Zhiying, North Korea make us familiar and have no sense of disobedience? Turkey 1945. Naz was dying during childbirth. She has given birth to eight daughters, and she would rather give up her life in order to have a son. It was still a daughter who gave birth by caesarean section at the risk of her life. "Men are famous, and women have only shame." Those deep-rooted ideas have also deeply hurt the daughters who are not welcome to the world and become the original imprint that they can't get rid of all their lives. Because she didn't live up to her expectations and gave birth to a son, Naz left with regret, and she didn't win any fame for herself, only shame. Does your family have a throne to inherit? Some people are angry and arrogant and hate their women. But the girl who gave birth to her first child is always particularly anxious when she is pregnant with her second child, and the stone in her heart can't fall to the ground. This phenomenon is extremely common. Not only the older generation, but also me and the people around me. Don't say that women's ideological tradition is backward. In fact, women don't care so much about the sex of their children, which doesn't affect their swaggering walking, but most women don't have the courage to say it. Therefore, sensible and helpless, they are patient and obedient according to men's preferences and social norms. Since ancient times, how important it is for women to have sons! Bend over for this? Very important, very important, very important. Not only did you break your back, but you also lost your life. Because while following the idea that men are superior to women, society silently rejects the silent protest that women can't have sons, and constantly gives women color to see, without the consequences and ending of having sons. On the one hand, it seems that the woman's actions are totally self-inflicted. But who can deny that sometimes the thorny problem at hand, the birth or existence of a son, can relieve stress? For example, Ama, the princess of the imperial concubine in the palace, made a mistake and committed a crime. After she was pregnant with the dragon seed, her father was not only acquitted, but also rewarded. The problem is solved like this. Is it amazing? Women can't have sons and are excluded from the orthodox ideal of female role positioning. Nowadays, women have to give consideration to family and workplace and have children together, but men often have a good time. So it is contradictory, obscure and unhappy. I didn't make it clear at all. It is more of a woman's spiritual history. One day, the purpose of childbirth should be more pure and natural. Women have less pressure and grievances. Why embarrass women? When a person's will imposes the will to have children, it breaks his heart like flattery, which is not great and lovely at all.