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Recognize and accept the reality:
After breaking up, does your always have a sweet and happy scene with you? Even if the previous fight is small, it will become a beautiful thing that you keep repeating in your memory ~ ~ But when the boy says goodbye, this relationship is over. Even if you want to get back together, this relationship is flawed. If the other person really cares about you, he won't say goodbye, and he won't agree not to stay after you say goodbye. Many people say that it is best for a lady not to always say goodbye when she is in love, but you find that you seem to have said it once or twice, and your boyfriend has never contacted you again. I can only say one thing: he doesn't like you that much, and he doesn't love you now. A boy who loves you will understand your little temper, hold your hand and never give up on you. Think about it, is the reason why you broke up really insoluble? You're kidding! So, tell yourself that he doesn't love you anymore. This is not your loss. "He lost someone who loved him, and you just dumped someone who didn't love you." . Your fate hasn't come yet.
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Resolutely not to retain:
Some people say that if you love him, you have to fight for it. However, things are different now. You broke up, not in the unrequited love period. Pursuit and retention are completely different concepts. If he loves you, he will come back. If he doesn't love you, you can only be bring disgrace to oneself, and finally you beg for more harm.
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Release the pain:
Even if you look at the failure of this love rationally and think that he is not worthy of you, or you have plans to break up with him. So many girls will restrain themselves and let themselves handle this matter calmly, but at the moment, your mood must still be very uncomfortable, right?
The more restrained you are, the more unrecoverable the scars lurking in your heart will be, and the deeper your problems will be. Therefore, at this time, you can release your inner dissatisfaction, inner grievances, inner anger and inner sadness and say these feelings, "He is a bitch!" But we still have to explode in our own nest on different occasions. Why not say it in front of friends and parents? Everyone should know this. First, after all, he used to be the one you loved. You can scold him, but still respect him. Although we broke up, we are still good girls with high quality. Second, pay attention to your image.
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Second, reflect properly and seek progress.
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Reflect and find out the problem:
No one is perfect. You may think that this failure is all your own fault. You didn't cherish him, didn't do well. In fact, these reflections, as an emotional operator, are necessary and necessary, which will help you better face and handle your future emotional life.
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Reflection needs to be appropriate, you are still the excellent yourself! Don't deny yourself:
But the word "appropriate" still hopes that girls will pay attention. For example, others may say that you are naive, and then you can't stand it, which eventually leads to a breakup. Is innocence good or bad? Some people say that women don't need to be mature all their lives when they meet a good man. When a woman becomes more and more mature and stronger, it proves that she has not met a good man yet. So your reflection is that you really feel that you have problems in some aspects, and this problem comes not only from the people who broke up with you, but also from friends and family in life and work. This is what we really need to correct.
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Try to correct the real problem:
If you feel that you do have problems in some aspects, you should also face them squarely! Who doesn't have such a small problem? As long as you keep reminding yourself and keep doing better, someone will see your efforts and like your cuteness.
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Third, learn to be independent and strong.
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Learn to be independent:
Why are girls not in the shadows for a long time after falling in love? Maybe you know he's not that nice to you. Because, you are so dependent on them that you fantasize about his existence every second. However, the best state of love should be that love only accounts for a quarter, as well as life, work and parents. If you are too attached to someone, it means you have a problem. Now the result of this problem is that you know your problem through lovelorn, and the worst result is nothing more than that. But the later, the greater the damage.
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Brave and strong:
You can be sad, you can be sad, you can reprimand, you can despair ... but you must have a deadline, you must control your emotions and don't let them overflow. Girls must be strong, no matter what difficulties they encounter, emotionally, they must break through the shackles of thought. As an individual, we can't ask others to do anything, so we should adjust our mentality and calmly deal with the difficulties we encounter. Girls, learn to be atmospheric. "Being strong means that you survived when others thought you were going to collapse!"
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Fourth, welcome your bright future.
Thank each other for letting go:
Whether you still like him or not, this is how you feel. You can't ask others to do the same to you. So, when he doesn't love you, when your feelings make you sad, thank him for letting go. Because of this, we have a different future.
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I am responsible for my own life:
Don't put your own needs in an unimportant position! Your life, only you can make it more exciting You have to thank him. In this painful process, he let go, and you have a brand new world, a brand new you. The future is up to you to plan. In this process, you learned how to get along with your lover, how to control your emotions, how to consider from the perspective of others, how to treat your work correctly, and how to face future difficulties. These are all your own wealth. And these treasures are produced in this process. You should be grateful for these memories, they are a color of your future life. Although you may not admit it now, you are thinking, "How painful am I now?" But you will eventually feel this way.
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Happiness is a step closer to you:
Life, every journey has to be experienced. Now, you are one step closer to happiness, whether it is voluntary or forced. In short, you deserve it! ! Finally, I firmly believe that the person I love most is waiting for you ahead, because he will never leave you! ! !
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