One of the must-read chats: mentality
Before chatting, you must have a correct attitude. Mentality is the most important part of chatting with girls. Many brothers are at a loss when their sisters don't reply to information or give poor feedback, resulting in:
1, always asking my sister why she didn't reply to the message.
2. chunks of information were bombed.
3. Imagine if you were a girl and met a man who didn't want to talk to you and kept harassing you. What would you do? We should put ourselves in the sister's shoes and think of what to say in the next two or three sentences when chatting. Don't have a strong "diaosi" breath when you open your mouth, so that you can have the basic idea of chatting with your sister.
In addition, the establishment of the framework also requires a strong mentality. Many newcomers to making friends with popular science, because there are not so many girls in WeChat, are often very unstable and easily confused by the little words of sisters or the dynamics of friends circle. Many men can't help but want to prove their goodness to their sisters when they see such a dynamic. They are good people and think they will be appreciated by their sisters.
In fact, after the sister sends out this dynamic, there will be many diaosi "cheated" to show good. If you become one of them, it is no different from other diaosi, and the correct way is to ignore it. When you want to talk, or when she is bored, talk to her.
Introduction to Chat (2): Framework
With the above step, let's talk about what a framework is. The so-called framework is the rhythm that dominates the dialogue. So, how can we make the framework stronger?
1, you have to have a lot of girls on WeChat, so that you won't forget that your girls won't call you back. If there are less than 20 girls in your WeChat, and you can only chat with 3 or 4 girls at a time, you will be upset because one of them won't call you back, and the food is not delicious. But if there are 200 girls in your WeChat, you can chat with 30 girls at a time. It doesn't matter to you whether some of them can call you back, because you are too busy to talk.
2, to control the number of words and frequency of chatting with your sister, step by step, so that your sister can understand your attitude in the process of interacting with you, instead of writing a poem like writing a string of news, so that your sister has no interest in you.
Learn to get closer to your sister and tell her indirectly through words that we are equal, not that I am chasing you. Many brothers complain that the goddess is cold because you didn't make your goddess understand this. Of course, if you don't build yourself well enough, no matter how powerful your writing is, it won't save your framework. When your presentation is strong enough, you can use the template of group sending framework to quickly screen girls and meet your favorite object.
4. Man: (emoticon) Smiling sister: Smiling face (sister replies to your expression, proving that she is willing to talk to you now) Bai Mei: What are you doing? Sister: I just got off work, and you? Bai Mei: Me too. I just had a meeting with my assistant. (The seven forms of chatting and the third form are based on the same point.)
W: Hee hee, you are quite busy.
M: We can play together when we are not busy another day (emoticon).
W: ok.
The template above is only eight sentences, but it confirms a vague invitation that many men can't talk about for days. The principle is simple:
Sister is attracted by the white charm display surface, so the role of strong framework is highlighted at this time; Without the attraction of exhibition, the above eight sentences can't be about a girl Although this operation method is a bit arbitrary, it may not be very useful for some conservative girls, but you can quickly screen out the girls who are willing to date you, so that when you want to date, no one will answer. Of course, chatting with frogs boiled in warm water is no problem, and you can eat most girls, but it will test your skills even more, because the longer you talk, the more likely there will be loopholes and the attraction will be lost quietly.
The third book that chat must read: sexual tension
Many brothers talk very well, but they can't ask out girls. Why? One of the most important reasons is that there is no sexual topic and no sexual tension during the chat. Sexual tension is very important in male-female communication. Imagine that my sister and you don't feel like boyfriend and girlfriend. Why did I come out with you?
Therefore, in the process of chatting, you must add the part of sexual tension to make girls feel that you and he are not just friends, but boyfriend and girlfriend. In this way, in the later chat process, the relationship can be upgraded smoothly.
For example:
Sister: (adverse reaction) (IOD)
Bai Mei: Then spank next time.
The above two sentences can not only show sexual tension, but also show the difference between you and other diaosi, which can quickly close the relationship. They can also make your sister think about the picture and play the role automatically. Repeat this several times, let the girl adapt to your rhythm and understand your attributes. This is sexual tension, a mysterious skill that can quickly improve your relationship with your sister. I hope everyone can be familiar with it. This is a great killing skill.
Chat must read the fourth: grab the window
The window is an extremely important indicator in picking up girls. When a girl has a window to you, she should attack, not shrink back like a hypocrite, and eventually be pulled into the friendship zone by her sister.
So, what is a window? For example, if a girl asks what you are doing, that's the window. At this time, you can answer "guess" to arouse her mood. She will think that you are quite interesting, not just a good person who knows how to answer questions.
There are many windows in the process of chatting, so everyone should learn to catch them. Below, I will give you some examples of how several girls have windows:
1. Sister sends messages on her own initiative, such as asking where you are, where you are, what you are doing, and even sending you an expression.
2, the sister responded positively and talked a lot.
3. Give advice to your circle of friends.
4. Don't object to your language, Keno.
The vague invitation was passed.
6, the sister chats and sends you a voice.
The above reaction is a feature that girls will have when they have big windows for you. Our idea is to seize the opportunity when they have these window periods, discover and upgrade your relationship in time, such as calling each other's baby, so that you can like your boyfriend and girlfriend.
The fifth must-read for chatting: invitations
There are so many chat skills mentioned above, let's see how to invite.
I think, unless you are really in a hurry to date, don't use a strong framework to speed up dating, because girls will think it is too fast.
The most correct way is to send an invitation only after your relationship has reached a certain height. At this time, unless your sister has something important, it is generally not easy to stand up. After you have established an intimate chat atmosphere, you have established a sense of comfort, connection and security, and the invitation is unlikely to fail.
The core of the invitation: the sister came out with you not because of how you invited or said anything, but because you deserve her to date you, so in a word: all dating science skills are based on self-construction.
It is difficult to chat with diaosi's sister. It is polite to chat with your sister.
I hope the article is helpful to you.