How to be a loving family? Six tips to help you build a happy family. As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. However, large and small frictions in the family are always inevitable. A good family is a great wealth. How to be a loving family? 6 tips to help you build a happy family, follow me.
How to be a loving family? 6 tips to help you build a happy family 1 As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. However, large and small frictions in the family are always inevitable, and the age span in a family is very large. Many times, there are old people, children and a couple in a family, so what is in the family? ...
As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. However, large and small frictions in the family are always inevitable, and the age span in a family is very large. Most of the time, there are old people, children and a couple in a family. So what can we do in the family? How can we build a harmonious family? Let me take stock of some tips in life for you ~
1. Mutual trust does not mean that one family does not enter one household. In short, it forms a family, and mutual trust is necessary. Without this foundation, many things are the beginning of contradictions. If you don't trust, you will be suspicious. Suspicion will bring more contradictions. How can a family say happiness in this case? 2. Mutual understanding
The age span of a family is very large, and the three views are definitely different. For example, the elderly pay more attention to health, young people pay attention to pleasure, and middle-aged people are more pragmatic. At this time, we need to understand each other and tolerate each other in order to build a harmonious family. There is no need to forcibly change the other person's three views, and don't impose your own ideas on your family.
Support each other when a family member is sick or encounters any difficulties, and the role of family members is obvious, which is also the time to test family cohesion. For example, when the wife is sick, the old man and the husband can't stand by and take the responsibility of housework and home care ... 4. Maintain the self-esteem of others.
Many couples think that children and the elderly don't need self-esteem, so when they do something wrong, they will blame them regardless of time and place. But in fact, regardless of the elderly or children, self-esteem is still very strong. If you don't give them a step, they won't like getting along with you. Therefore, it is also important to respect each other and not criticize others.
5. Confession As a family member, don't be shy, say "I love you" to your partner more, communicate with your children and tell them that you love him too, spend more time with the elderly and let them nag ... A good family is bound by "love", so you might as well do more things, express more and complain less, and life will really get better ~6. Actively organize family activities.
During the holiday, we might as well organize some family trips to show off and cultivate our feelings. Usually, the whole family can go for an outing or go out for sports, which not only cultivates sentiment, exercises the body, but also makes the family more harmonious ~
These are the tips I brought to get along with my family. Dear friends, after reading it, you might as well try your best to build a happy family.
How to be a loving family? 6 tips to help you build a happy family 2 My husband cheated once before, but I have forgiven him through communication and negotiation. But in the face of his second derailment, I really don't know what to do, how to restore a loving family, and how to save it so that it won't break the family.
Netizen's emotional problem consultation:
Hello, teacher! I'm glad to meet you. My question is: My husband and I have known each other for 10 years, been married for 9 years and are 30 years old. My husband is 170, and I am 153. I have two children, the oldest is 8 years old and the youngest is 3 years old. The family is very happy. They were born in Bao Xiao on September 20 13. Tell the reason of existence, he said that we have different ideological levels, and there is no * * * same language, and there is the problem of virgin complex. Regret quitting your job and taking care of your children at home for seven years. I have been out of society for too long, and my knowledge is not wide, but I can't help it. Without the help of elders, children are helpless from an early age.
Then I found an opportunity to find a job that can take care of my family and improve myself. I was lucky to join the insurance industry. At first, my husband didn't quite agree. Because of work, my husband was transferred to other bases, and I go home once a week. Because the children go to school, I can't go together. I didn't go alone with my children, and I don't know why. 20 16 July, after my husband was found out to be having an affair again, I was devastated and couldn't get over it. I couldn't accept the fact. The reasons are still different. The virgin complex is different from my situation after work. He said that I cared less about him after work and my attitude changed, so I went outside to find him. Now I'm at a loss, and I can't forgive and tolerate him anymore. I have become indulgent, calm down and think about it! I am worried and scared to continue to get along, but I still have feelings for him and two lovely babies if I don't continue. I hope the teacher can give me some advice, whether I leave or go back to love, I will face it. Thank you!
Emotional mentor replied:
Whether you leave or go back to love, you have to face it. It's your choice. I can't choose for you.
However, if you look at your own case description, you will know that your mentality is very entangled. Let's stay together. You said you couldn't stand him any longer. If you are not together, you say that you still have feelings for him and his two precious daughters. Isn't this a dilemma? You have created a dilemma yourself. How should I answer this question well?
You have to understand that this is a difficult problem in your own life, so only you are the answer to this difficult problem. Why do you want to put your life in such a difficult situation? Isn't that because of your choice of your life in the past seven years?
I read your chat record. I'm afraid your husband is not a person who can go on and help each other in the same boat, because he doesn't really treat you as one of his own. But in any case, you should improve yourself. As your husband said, you should study and make progress now. Since he said so, you should take this opportunity to make progress quickly, or you will break up in the future, and you have nothing. Then, how can you rebuild your life?
Therefore, I give you two suggestions:
First, while your husband still supports your study and progress, then study hard and make good progress.
Second, don't engage in any moral kidnapping, and don't accuse him of saying, "After I get married, I will concentrate on this family." "You see, I have paid so much for this family that my baby is crying." From a moral point of view, everything you say is right, and everything you scold is right. After all, he cheated and was wrong. However, this couple's life is your own, and you are the one who can drink water like a fish. Is it good for your life if the spectator next to you scolds him with you? No!
So, what I want to tell you now is how to manage your life. Whether you want to be with your husband or not, your mentality must be reversed. It's not that you can forgive others by doing the right thing. It's not that the other party did anything wrong. You can morally blame each other in such a long speech. These final retribution all fall on themselves. Why is this?
Only peaceful communication between two people can solve the problem, and only peaceful communication can find the answer for your life. This is what you should learn most.