Colleague Yu Lin is a very understanding girl. Many people in the company like to have sex with her. But her boss, Xin Jie, kept everyone away.
Sister Xin has always been famous for her strong personality and resolute work, which has offended many people. Take director Li of the marketing department next door as an example. He and Sister Xin have many contradictions in their work.
And because of the disagreement between them, colleagues are miserable. As long as it involves dealing with the marketing department, everyone has a headache.
I need to ask some questions from Director Li for the project I am in charge of recently. Compared with other people's complaints, Yu Lin didn't say much.
She immediately made a list of questions and called Director Li. Hello, Director Li, this is Yu Lin from the investment department. Is it convenient for you to talk? Well, I need to ask you some questions about this project. When do you think you will be free? I will find you. Never mind, you go ahead, I'll wait for your news at any time. "
At the end of work, Director Li actually took the initiative to come to the office and said with a smile: Sorry to have kept you waiting.
Yu Lin was flattered and quickly stood up from his chair and said, You are so busy, I should wait. Please sit down and have a rest. I'll get you a glass of water.
Director Li was a little surprised. I didn't expect this girl to talk so well. Say, it's okay It's okay. Sit down.
Xinjie just saw it, and Director Li said, Oh, you are not so polite to me at ordinary times. Every time I talk to you about business, it's really hard to see you in person!
Director Li smiled and said nothing. He turned to ask Yu Lin, what questions do you want to ask? Go ahead.
That day, Yu Lin quickly finished the work at hand. From then on, as long as it involves dealing with the marketing department, Yulin will get the support of Director Li and finish the work smoothly. Colleagues are very surprised. Director Li, who has always been taciturn, suddenly became a different person.
In life, everyone likes to deal with people who have high emotional intelligence and can talk. What they say, like the spring breeze, can cure you immediately.
02
During the live broadcast of the final of "I am a singer" in the second season of Hunan Satellite TV, singer Sun Nan suddenly announced that she would abandon the competition without warning, causing an uproar.
However, Wang Han's performance is a textbook-level rescue. In a few minutes' speech, he immediately inquired about Sun Nan's decision and expressed his respect after confirmation. At the same time, give the director and the program group a buffer time and prepare three minutes of advertising time.
Most importantly, he had a heartfelt interaction with the audience. He said, "The success of a program is not only the seven singers who participated in the competition, but also the hundreds of millions of viewers sitting under the stage and in front of the TV." As soon as the words came out, they calmed everyone's mood and got bursts of applause.
Can talk with people with high emotional intelligence, can show their quality and self-cultivation in times of crisis, and make people comfortable from the inside out. Cai Kangyong once said that a person with high EQ will make others feel like a spring breeze. Spring breeze has no clear task and no specific attempt. It is neither flattering others nor kneeling.
May you and I both become such people and add more gentleness and beauty to this world.