My original life was very material and full of desires. For example, I have seven cups at home, and there are five or six kinds of tea and coffee. I use different cups and drink different drinks at different times in different seasons. I will buy 10 headphones at one time and use them slowly at home. I will also buy several mobile phone chargers at one time, one in each room. Nightlife is also rich, full of debauchery and desire.
Later, I met her. I don't think I should fall in love with her, at least at that time and place, but I can't help myself. I don't know whether I am driven by desire or love.
In order to know myself clearly, I began to live a minimalist life, constantly subtracting my life and desires. I threw away all the water cups, leaving only one big one. I only used this in spring, summer, autumn and winter. I started drinking only white water and stopped drinking any drinks. I sold or gave away almost all electronic products, and so on. I no longer go in and out of the night show, go home on time after work and go to bed on time every day.
When I almost put aside all material and desire, I saw the essence of my love for her, without any material or even desire. I love her only because of feelings, but I have no purpose, that is, I love her. I don't know if minimalism makes my judgment correct. I like this reason, I like this motivation. This is also a way to know yourself. I want to eat every meal carefully, dream when I can fall asleep normally, take Vipassana training to try to understand myself, often play with cats outside, meet old friends in the most unforgettable and favorite places in the world, watch concerts I have always wanted to go to, try new experiences I have never had before, and spend as much time with my family as possible. You see, nothing important in life is related to the object itself. But why should we spend our lives in a daze about things?