There are many more serious situations in real life, and even some girls find out when they are pregnant. To make matters worse, this man has no intention of marrying himself. There are not a few such examples. Many such silly girls seem to have been blinded when they are immersed in love, and later found themselves cheated, but it was too late.
When in love, girls generally don't think too much, let alone question each other. Girls must keep their eyes open. If a boyfriend has the following performance, it probably means that he has a family, or that he is not really with you.
1, don't introduce you to his friends and family.
If a man never introduces you to his friends, then he is probably not really with you, because a man who loves you will be eager to tell his buddies the news of his cancellation as soon as possible. If you ask him about his parents, he is always reluctant to say more, or hide it, and never mentions the situation at home, which is also very suspicious.
2. Don't reply to text messages or answer the phone at night.
If a man always doesn't reply to your WeChat after coming home at night, or always calls you after hanging up your phone, it's probably inconvenient for him to be at home. Then you should pay more attention. You can directly ask him why he always hangs up at night and see what he says. If he not only didn't give a reasonable explanation, but also asked you not to call him so late in the future, which would affect his rest, there must be something wrong.
3. Talk about weddings or children.
You can tell him that it is troublesome to watch other people's weddings. Ask him what you are going to do after you get married, and see if he ever thinks that if you change the subject evasively, it means that he has no intention of being with you at all. Or a colleague wants to ask which hospital the child was born in and how to open a certificate class to see if he knows.
Play a joke on him and say that he saw him shopping with his wife.
If you have found some clues and have doubts about him, you might as well have something more direct, such as joking with him seriously and saying that you saw him shopping with his wife at the weekend to see if he was nervous. If so, your guess is right.
It is a good quality for girls to be innocent about love, but don't be too naive. They still have to consider a lot of practical problems, and they can't be silly together without asking anything.