Take your husband, for example, a married man who has received a higher education and attracted everyone's attention. Due to social and cultural reasons, he can't experience this feeling in his daily life, but in the stage of sexual psychological growth and reality, he can experience it at will in the network to satisfy his own desires.
Everything has its own soil. For an adult with self-control and mental health, chatting online can be used as a kind of "psychological massage", just as relaxing as drinking tea and chatting, playing cards and washing feet in daily life. It brings people psychological comfort and is beneficial.
Because of the pressure of work and the emptiness of life, adults seek a kind of release and a kind of spiritual support. It's nothing. They can find a sincere friend through the internet, tell each other, comfort each other, understand each other and care about each other.
However, some people who are psychologically unhealthy, evasive and irresponsible are prone to rely on online chat, making online chat a "spiritual opium" and making themselves its slaves, which affects normal life. This is not desirable.