Two years later, Xiaoxiao was badly hurt, but she was still thinking about her first lover and couldn't give up this feeling.
After that, the husband and the little girl who just came to his company winked at each other and seduced them to the bedside. The man said Xiaoxiao has a strong personality and is not feminine. It's disgusting to see her face. By destroying Mix, the man made the little girl giggle.
Xiaoxiao wants to talk to him and expects him to adjust his mentality and live a stable life. As everyone knows, this man used the old trick again and ran away. Phone _ not answered, mobile phone WeChat does not return, no one can be found.
How to repair marriage? This situation has lasted for more than three months, and it is the most serious marriage break-up that Xiaoxiao has encountered since she got married 10.
Driving the boy into a hurry, he said he was divorced.
Xiaoxiao never thought about divorce. They have a strong emotional foundation, experienced perfect love memories, and they have a pair of lovely children. Coupled with her husband's good family, Xiaoxiao is unwilling to bargain with a third party.
During that time, she was very helpless, hesitated a little and reported everyone's information.
Open the warm road and unload your husband's guard.
In the case of Xiaoxiao, although no one can be found, the WeChat phone is not blacklisted, and it will not be too difficult to connect.
Everyone told Xiaoxiao that if her husband feels tough, why not choose the "warm way" first, and send her husband a WeChat every morning and evening, and be elegant and sensible. Xiaoxiao said:
I used to send it every day, but he didn't reply to WeChat or answer the phone at all! What if he doesn't answer?
It's okay, just send it! But you can't send it like before!
If it's not easy to send it, please check and modify it according to your speaking habits before sending it.
In addition, our teacher asked Xiaoxiao to think:
What's the difference between what Mix said and what the teacher said?
Xiaoxiao was very savvy and soon realized that there was something wrong with her speaking habits. He practiced new ways of speaking in his daily life according to the way his teacher taught him. In addition, we also learn the skills of training and communication by dissolving some dialogues in the zero-zone dawn scene simulation.
From the shallow to the deep, choose the right time and prepare carefully.
This is how I send messages early in the morning and late at night. Three days later, her husband replied to her and was in a good mood. Only three days later, I saw the actual effect of the first step. Xiaoxiao cheered and asked everyone what to do next.
Next, of course, call them by video and voice _ la ~
But be careful not to mention emotional things, and don't say when to go home. Just pay attention generally and don't give them work pressure.
Within a week, my husband repaired the contact rate with Xiaoxiao in the past.
But even this would not be enough Everyone still lacks a breakthrough to make her husband determined to return.
As it happens, my grandmother's 60th birthday is coming. This is a good opportunity.
Everyone made Xiaoxiao the chief of staff and asked her to prepare for her birthday. The key is to let Xiaoxiao carefully prepare an affectionate gift for her husband in advance. This gift was prepared one and a half months in advance, which very well expressed Xiaoxiao's thoughts and affection for her husband.
When it was my birthday, my grandmother, who was already very satisfied with Xiaoxiao, also smiled, and the family got together and prospered. Seeing Xiaoxiao's seriousness, there is no need for her husband to look at her with an evasive attitude.
In the evening, Xiaoxiao showed her husband her carefully prepared gift. Her husband was very moved to think of the past, and now he sincerely apologizes and says that he will cherish this family in the future.
Everything is moving towards the expected overall goal. Xiaoxiao was a little distracted by her husband's return. She wants to forgive her husband at once and let him go home.
Because everyone had vaccinated Xiaoxiao before, saying that if her husband had a heart to return, he must tell everyone. After she told everyone what she thought, everyone stopped at once.
At present, the husband does have the heart to return, but he has no intention of doing so. If you forgive too quickly, your husband is likely to have an affair afterwards.
So, we made the next plan for Xiaoxiao, teaching her how to be infatuated with her husband, how to give him a sense of urgency, how to correctly guide her husband to invest a lot of energy in family funds, and how to separate the relationship between her husband and a third party.
Xiaoxiao lived all his life. She has high understanding and strong execution ability, and the whole process is very successful.
In fact, after Xiaoxiao's contact with her husband was restored, her husband naturally cut off contact with the outside world. But their married life must be improved before they can be happy again.
Under everyone's specific guidance, Xiaoxiao resumed her married life after two and a half months. Her husband, from the initial avoidance to divorce, and now more and more coquettish wife, has changed dramatically.
It is not easy to go from the first lover to the present couple. Xiaoxiao said that in marriage, not only the husband but also himself has changed. My former self, charming and moving, is a cheerful and bright beautiful girl. I don't know why. With my life, my temperament has declined. I like swearing, complaining and telling my own pain. Fortunately, after recovering, I can be happy again.
Many women come to see everyone when their marriage breaks up. When we put forward this proposal, they often questioned:
What's the use?
What if that doesn't work?
What if my husband doesn't listen?
What should I do?
Where is the marriage counseling? When they keep pressing but can't _, I know that they have no reason to be eaten to death in marriage.
Their hearts are not strong enough. They have both the ability to see through difficult problems and the ability to solve difficulties. They are hesitant about what to do. This is the fact that they are deeply oppressed in their married life.
I can still see different stories about the tragedy of women's married life every day. Their tragedies are varied, but I finally found out:
Their greatest tragedy is that they can't learn to think and solve difficulties. Even if you are a fairy, even if consultants have thousands of strategies, their logical thinking, thinking, execution, execution ability and layout can't support them.
A woman with a strong heart and strong execution ability has a dangerous marriage life. They can either get a clean divorce or take pains to deal with the crisis and save their marriage. Even if you are temporarily trapped by love, you will soon open the situation and regain happiness.
How to maintain a marriage? For example, Mix in the example knows what she wants, and she wants to save her marriage, so she tries to maintain it. She implements the plan made by everyone step by step, so even though she is seriously injured, she still has the ability to work happily.