Our cousins made an appointment long before our cousins informed us to go back to China. When they come back, they will all go to the dinner party. Because we haven't seen each other for more than two years, we miss them very much.
Non-immediate relatives and sisters like us all miss our cousin very much. It is conceivable that our cousin's parents, brothers and sisters should miss her so much.
My cousin's parents are my aunt and uncle. I remember every summer vacation when I was a child, I would follow my mother from my hometown to visit menstruation's home in Shenzhen for a while.
So my cousin and I almost grew up playing, that is, loving each other and killing each other.
My cousin is the first child of my aunt and uncle, and she has been the apple of their eye since childhood. When my cousin goes to school, menstruation is willing to buy her daughter a set of pajamas for about 1000 yuan.
In fact, my aunt and uncle were not very well off at that time, because I remember that my cousins were all wearing Giordano and Benirall, while my cousins were all wearing high-grade products.
Every time I live in menstruation's house for dinner, my uncle always happily holds menstruation's chair in one hand and my cousin's chair in the other. It is infinitely warm for a family to eat and chat. This scene is my first impression of a "happy family".
From then on, it will always exist in my mind, lingering. For me, the definition of a happy family is to sit around and laugh with my family.
Under the care of Uncle menstruation, my cousin has grown into a beautiful girl who is homesick.
It was not until I graduated from college and came out to work that my cousin's independent personality seemed to wake up.
I never thought that I would be nagged by my uncle menstruation even when I was eating and sleeping, because my stomach is not good, which affects my parents' hearts all day. Then every time I go to her house, she depends on me to help her clean the wardrobe clothes and counters, the cancer cousin who is extremely attached to her family. Later, she went to such a far place in America. Is the farthest child in our family.
In a flash, my cousin has been studying in the United States for more than two years, and we haven't seen each other for almost two years. This time, I finally look forward to my cousin's arrival. On weekends when I don't have to work, we are busy with hairdressing, eating and taking pictures of our sisters.
I asked my cousin: Are you satisfied with your present life? Are you happy? When will you go back to China?
My cousin said that she has adapted to American life and agrees with American way of life. She said that living in the United States, every family has its own space, and no one will easily disturb other people's lives. Everyone in different countries will not judge other people's family affairs, especially personal privacy, let alone compare with other people's lives.
Whether blue-collar or white-collar, rich or poor, they live a real life in their own channels every day. Really live and enjoy life.
She said that after returning to China for more than a week, every time she went out, there was a sea of people, traffic and high-rise buildings, and the traffic was crowded and noisy, so she was a little afraid to go out.
From her description and state, I can feel her inner peace, calmness, calmness, frankness and unpretentious.
It makes people feel really grounded. Although I have never lived in the United States, I am not qualified to comment on American life, but judging from my cousin's current state, I really don't have the anxiety and impetuousness of our life in China's first tier cities.
We are overwhelmed by the inequality of housing, education and medical resources, and it is difficult to really settle down and experience life and enjoy every moment of life. However, we are always urged by various pressures to run all the way forward and dare not stop, for fear that once we stop, we will catch up with the overall pace of society and be eliminated.
We are so tired living in China's first tier cities that we really want to experience it in such a capitalist country when we have the chance. What's the difference between American and China's life? What is real life?