Soul also means qi or breathing in Greek, because ancient people thought that life depended on breathing, and when breathing stopped, life ended.
With the development of science, the research object of psychology has changed from soul to mind. It was not until the beginning of19th century that Herbart, a German philosopher and educator, first proposed that psychology is a science.
Psychology and pedagogy originally belonged to the category of philosophy, and then they were separated from the infancy of philosophy. Scientific psychology not only describes psychological phenomena, but more importantly explains psychological phenomena and reveals the law of their occurrence and development.
1. It is normal for that person not to contact you suddenly; That person suddenly contacted you again, which was normal and didn't say anything. Just like this sentence, someone visiting your homepage doesn't mean that others miss you or are interested in you. It may also be that others are giving examples to people around them to explain what a homepage is.
2. Forgiveness is easy. Trust again, it's not that easy. The so-called "all poisons do not invade" is just a sign of numbness.
The difference between "love" and "like" is simple. If you love a flower, water it. If you like it, pick it. By the same token, if you love someone, you will take good care of her, and if you like her, you will try your best to possess her.
4. Idiot's Law Never argue with an idiot. Because he will pull your IQ to the same level as him and beat you with rich experience!
5. Gender psychology Men can't forgive women's infidelity, and women can't forgive men's emotional infidelity. Men pay more attention to the exclusive desire for women's bodies, while women pay more attention to the possession of men's hearts. Women can accept men with stories, and men generally don't like women with stories.
6. Murphy's Law When you hate someone more, he will always appear in front of you; And when you miss someone, you can't find him all over the earth.
7. When you say something disgusting to the opposite sex but you don't feel disgusting, you may have fallen in love with the opposite sex.
8. But if you really fall in love with someone, you will suffer from emotional cleanliness and can't stand the little emotional impurities of the other person, both physically and psychologically.
9. Men and women have different ideas.
10. Sometimes a person is like a hedgehog. When someone held him and blood dripped on him, he said, "I hurt you", but he didn't know that the blood belonged to that person.
1 1. People are always like this. They ask too much of people close to them and are too tolerant of strangers.
12. If a girl doesn't like to hear it.
"Didn't I tell you earlier?"
"Whatever."
"Let's talk about it later."
"It's up to you."
"You can find better than me."
"I can't help it if you think so."
"You think too much."
"So be it."
"hmm."
"It doesn't matter."
"I was wrong."
"The number you dialed is busy."
13. This sentence is suitable for those children who can't let go: In fact, sometimes you have to think about whether you really love deeply or because you are unwilling.
14. I am particularly sensitive to intonation when I am depressed, so "how to say" is more important than "what to say". mousse
15. God created fingerprints because he wanted people to know that, in fact, everyone has scars.
16. The best things in life are invisible, which is why we close our eyes when kissing, crying and wishing.
17. Psychological science: The more, the less satisfied. After owning a new item, people will want to constantly configure the items that suit them to achieve psychological balance, which is called "matching effect" in psychology.
18. Psychologically speaking, most people will only lose their temper with safe people. Because it's within the safe range. Your subconscious knows that the other person will not leave you. Nonsense is a dependence.
19. When a man secretly loves two girls at the same time, who he loves more depends on who loves him less. -Han Han (Is this the legendary mean psychology? )
20. Sweet words to your lover's left ear can touch his heart more. The experimental results show that people can write down 70% of the emotional words they hear from their left ear, while their right ear only remembers 58%.
The reason is that the human brain has different division of labor, the left brain controls logical thinking and the right brain conducts perceptual intuitive thinking. The left ear is controlled by the right brain.
2 1. According to the psychological test, you can only have a crush on someone for four months at the longest. If you still have a crush on the same person for more than four months, then you really love him/her.
22. Hooking your arms is just a courtesy. From a psychological point of view, only when the palms are closed can we really communicate.
Holding hands is more meaningful than sharing a bed. Eunice Lam
24. People who feel inferior in their bones always want to see others make a fool of themselves.
25. You can forget the past, but you must let go.
26. This is what naked marriage tells us: Many times, women just want an answer. But for men, the answer is nothing more than a reason made up by the brain in a few seconds.
Believe me, when something bad happens, what you can hear is never the real answer, but an excuse made up by others. And the truth of the matter is often the worst and most vicious of all your premonitions and predictions. —— Liu Qi
28. Many things are between "no injustice" and "melodramatic".
29. Two men chase a woman, and the feelings are shallow and give up first; Two women chase a man, and they give up first when they have deep feelings.
30. People who have no time to rest will always have time to get sick; People who have no time to fall in love will always find time to date.
3 1. Murphy Theorem The more you are afraid of what will happen, the more it will happen. It's only because I'm afraid that I care. The more you concentrate, the more likely you are to make mistakes.
32. A man's ex-girlfriend is a woman's lifelong rival. No matter who failed them when they broke up, more than 90% of them will succeed if their ex-girlfriend comes to ask for help many years later. Many men won't even refuse to have substantial physical relations with their ex-girlfriends. Men are easily entangled with their ex-girlfriends because in their hearts, men's possessiveness always implies that their ex-girlfriends are their women.
33. There is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and new love. If neither time nor new love can make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough and new love is not good enough. Amy Cheung
Most unhappy people often underestimate what they have and overestimate what others have.
Everything is for us, not just for ourselves or each other.
Whenever, remember this sentence Let me understand that love is not to give nothing to yourself, but to support each other forever! Be kind to yourself and each other.
36. Those who make decisions without thinking will slip away at the critical moment.
A long time ago, I dared not promise anything to others. Students who have suffered should bear in mind, and don't hesitate to believe others' promises.
37. Forced love is not firm.
If you change your personality and principles and play tricks for each other to be with you, such "love" will inevitably end in rupture, and then you will find that you have lost not only your love, but also your soul.
38. Some people say that we should learn to communicate, because life without communication is a defect; But we should also learn to be alone. Without the ability to be alone, you can't stand loneliness and you can't live without people. This is also a disaster.
People in love often say "I can't live without you", which is really a disaster. You know, from birth to death, the only thing that can always accompany us is ourselves. Learn to be alone, no matter what happens, whether abandoned or not, whether lonely or helpless, don't despair.
39. Life is only three days, and people who live in yesterday are confused; Those who live in tomorrow wait; People who live in the present are the most practical.
Very simple words of wisdom! Live in the present, seize what you have, set foot on today's road and realize tomorrow's dream!
40. Don't be angry, don't be disappointed, don't be ecstatic, everything will pass.
A simple sentence tells the whole of life. Whether you are sad or happy, whether you succeed or fail, whether you get together or leave … everything will pass, so, live a quiet life, live a quiet life!
It is said that you will appear in other people's dreams when you lose sleep.
42. The degree to which a person likes you is generally proportional to the speed at which he replies to your text messages.
43. Studies have found that the tears people shed when they are sad contain more harmful substances caused by mental depression. Experts from the Psychiatric Laboratory of St. Paul-Ramsey Medical Center in the United States found that tears can relieve people's depression.
44. According to the Daily Mail, a study found that people's frequent use of mobile phones and email before going to bed will affect the quality of sleep. Make the mood worse the next day, easy to be anxious and depressed.
45. Summarize all your misfortunes in one sentence, and then ask yourself, "Is it still important to you in three years?" I believe the problem will be solved.
46. liking someone is a feeling, but not liking someone is a fact. The facts are easy to explain, but the feeling is unspeakable.
47. When night comes, it is the most fragile time for one's mind and the craziest time for missing.
48. Show off your inner self-distrust. Psychology believes that "showing off love to others" is a kind of performance that needs inner attention and affirmation, probably because you can't always get some things. Once you have it, you hope to build your confidence with the envy of the outside world.
49. McDull said: If you have something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you, and you don't know what you want. In the end, you can only be sad and disappointed, especially feelings.
No one can go back and start over, but anyone can write a completely different ending from now on.