I think the following question is probably a common problem among women in China. Take my mother as an example, a large number of middle-aged women who dance square dance, including her friends, have this problem. Every time she is angry and my father coaxes her, she is not easy to be happy. She just thought: If you knew I would be angry, why did you do that? I really feel that my father is so wronged. Can you expect a straight steel man to have such meticulous thoughts? Do you really think he knows this will make you angry? They are straight men of steel, and you won't even notice them when you cut your hair from chest length to bob today. No, just correct it. Don't worry, don't look at Empresses in the Palace, you will feel that people around you will harm you!
I always get a private chat saying, "Emotional counseling is exposed. Does he just want to have sex with me? " How do I know if he really wants to start a relationship? "Encounter this kind of problem, I advise you not to worry about each other's subjective factors or potential factors, ask yourself first, are you happy with him? If the answer is no doubt, what do you care what it wants? How about enjoying it first? Do you understand why Murphy's law holds? For example, if you think this person is not sincere to you, you will become more and more suspicious. If you think he has other ideas, you will act, make trouble, check your bed, peek at your mobile phone, question him and finally break up. You will also feel: Look, he is really sincere to me, and Murphy's Law is working again. What is spirit? In view of this feeling of self-slapping, besides cheering that this man escaped from your clutches, I also want to make your head into advertising paper and stick it on every pole so that a good man can end you.
When I was a child, because my aunt and grandmother had a bad relationship, my grandmother and my mother always helped me pass on the message that "your aunt is a bad egg". But every time I go to the menstrual home to play, my aunt always helps me make good food. When I was a child, I wondered if my aunt was a good person after all. Should I treat her with a good attitude or a bad attitude? I don't want to live anymore, and my mother replied, "She wants to win you over." Because I told my sister that my sister's words were very enlightening to me. He said: "No matter whether she is a good person or a bad person, you should be kind to her if others love you dearly." I woke up like a dream.
In fact, many times, this man's attitude towards you is not established by himself. Men and women are different. You look at a handsome guy and your brain opens wide: My God, if you have a man and a woman with him, which primary and secondary school do you want to go to? Men have only one thought when they see beautiful women: slim! More than 90% of men never get along by getting married. They really didn't expect that far. Therefore, everyone's question-whether he is ravaging you, subjectively, he is not clear. So, don't let the femininity of love be lost under such concerns. I enjoyed being together, I was always scared when I was together, and I was always cursing when I was apart.