What is the most taboo in marriage? Many people say that they don't respect marriage, which is really the most taboo, but we ignore an equally important one, that is, small families are not separated from everyone. As we all know, marriage is actually a branch line extending from the big family of two people, and then combined into a small family belonging to two young people. Although marriage is not just two things, we should also understand that there is a distance between the two, and the days are lived by two young people themselves.
Parents should not get involved in their children's affairs and should not use their own ideas to regulate their children. Children should not let their parents be sentimental about their own affairs, let alone blindly protect their parents. They listen to their parents and have no opinions. This kind of marriage will go wrong sooner or later, so we should know how to keep a safe distance and how to deal with some things, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Although Zhang Xiaohua was born in the countryside, he is a man of good conduct and enjoys a good reputation in the circle of friends. But it wasn't like this at first, because his family's conditions were not very good. After finishing college, I entered the society and had no friends. His childhood dream was to buy a suite by himself and then live in the city with his parents, but the ideal is always beautiful and the reality is cruel. He has a fixed salary of seven or eight thousand yuan a month, without much ups and downs.
Moreover, the current housing price is not low, even if you buy a suite in the county, it will cost 500,000 to 600,000, which is not something that an ordinary person can do in four or five years. However, they all say that Zhang Xiaohua is lucky that she can meet a girl like Yang Xiaohui under such conditions. Yang Xiaohui's family conditions are not bad. Although she lives in the suburbs, she occupies a large area. Moreover, Yang Xiaohui's father is a businessman, so everyone thinks that Zhang Xiaohua can marry Yang Xiaohui, which is a wish he made in his last life.
Actually, Zhang Xiaohua thinks so himself, but what he values is not Yang Xiaohui's maiden condition, but Yang Xiaohui. In Zhang Xiaohua's eyes, Yang Xiaohui is a very clever and kind woman. They actually worked as colleagues for a while, so they know each other very well. Later, when they got together, it was a very special fate. After they got married, they lived in a big city outside. Although renting a house, the two young people live a warm life.
On this day, Zhang Xiaohua's mother suddenly called Zhang Xiaohua and said, "Son, your wife has three suites, and you asked her to have one." "Mom, you are confused." In fact, Zhang Xiaohua knew that his wife's land had been expropriated and several houses had been allocated, but he didn't expect his mother to have such an idea. He is a very proud man, and his own conditions are not as good as those of his husband's family. If he still makes such excessive demands, he can't hold his head up in front of his parents-in-law.
So he said to his mother, "Mom, Xiaohui and I are going to buy a house here. Now Xiaohui and I are married and belong to our family. How can you let her go back and ask for a house? " Do you want her to go back to her mother's house in the future? I know you are worried about us, too. It's for our own good. But you have to understand that I am married and have a family, and I have my own discretion to do what. "So Zhang Xiaohua persuaded his mother that he didn't want her to have such an idea.
Summary: I have to say that Zhang Xiaohua is actually a smart person who knows what he needs and wants, what he can and can't do, and what will affect his marriage. This is the reason why he married Yang Xiaohui, and it may also be the reason why he can have a smooth career. After all, if you want to do a good job, you must first learn to be a good person.