I said to him, how can you do such an idea? Answering questions actively in class can not only make you think with the teacher, but also prevent your thinking from deserting, which has many benefits. Don't you want to be a top master in your studies? If you want to get ahead, you must do something different!
There is an idiom: stand out from the crowd, do you want to be a crane or a chicken? If your dream is to be a crane, will you squat down because you see a chicken so short?
Don't care what others think, the key is what you do. Take an unusual road. At first, people around you may make irresponsible remarks. At this time, be sure to let others say! When you make great achievements, those who used to laugh at you will not only shut up automatically, but also respect you.
I once took a student, Li Bin, who was a good example for all of us to learn from. When he was in high school, the most prominent feature was that he was bold and not shy, and he liked answering teachers' questions very much. Generally speaking, students, especially those from rural areas, are very shy. They dare not show their faces boldly in public, and even don't like to answer questions loudly in class. They are used to talking with their heads hooked. But Li Bin is not such a person, although he also comes from the countryside, and unfortunately he lost his father very early.
With Li Bin around, teachers no longer have to worry about no one answering questions in class. As soon as the teacher asks a question, he is the first to raise his hand. He will rush to answer questions in every class, although sometimes he doesn't consider maturity, and the answers he gives attract all kinds of laughter. He raised his hand too often, and later the teacher had to tell him: raise your hand less in class and leave some opportunities for other students. But he still put his hand up there, and even if the teacher turned a deaf ear, he didn't give him too many opportunities.
Li Bin was admitted to China University of Science and Technology in the college entrance examination, and this year he was admitted to the Graduate School of China Academy of Sciences. Everyone thinks he is a crane and will have a bright future!
Of course, although everyone wants to go high, it is "unattainable" and the heights are too cold. In addition to a strong sense of loneliness, there is also pressure: trees attract wind and trees are beautiful in the forest, and the wind will destroy them. Therefore, to be a standout person, you must have the psychological quality of "showing off" and the ability of "resisting wind and blowing". Sun Ce got the imperial seal, but he couldn't be the emperor, and Li Zicheng failed to sit in the dragon chair. The essence is that he lost his direction and didn't have enough resistance.
Therefore, if you want to stand out, you still need to be down-to-earth and work hard. With a solid foundation, you will naturally not be like a reed on the wall, and no one can control you.
Be a crane, don't think like a chicken.