1, and define your own problem orientation.
Some consultants are experienced and some are inexperienced. See what he is particularly good at, and also clarify his own problems, and use his own problems to find a suitable psychological counselor.
Some psychological counselors are good at emotional affection, while others are good at stress. Only by knowing your own problems can you choose the right consultant and handle it with ease.
2. Choose an experienced counselor.
Counseling is a hodgepodge. Some people have many years of experience, but their academic qualifications are not high. Some people have degrees, but they don't understand psychological counseling, but they only have a little knowledge. But my advice is to choose a counselor with many years of experience.
Because such counselors are often in the front line to solve other people's psychological problems. Years of experience let them form their own consulting system, see through other people's problems at a glance, and then gradually guide you.
3. Choose a counselor with a good reputation.
Some counselors can consult him, but he can't solve the problem. He can go online and search for any counselor with a good reputation.
This kind of consultant can usually help others solve problems in a personal way, and will not treat every consultation casually. In the process of consultation, we will also choose the appropriate consultation method according to everyone's characteristics. This kind of flexible and experienced consultant is worth choosing.
moral code
1. Psychological counselors shall not discriminate against visitors because of their gender, age, occupation, nationality, nationality, beliefs and values.
2. Before establishing the consultation relationship, the psychological counselor must let the visitors know the nature and characteristics of psychological work, the possible limitations of this work, and the rights and obligations of the visitors themselves.
3. When dealing with clients, counselors should discuss the key points of their work with clients and reach a consensus proposal, and even reach a written agreement when necessary.
4. Psychological counselors shall not establish any relationship with clients other than counseling, try to avoid double relationship, and shall not use clients' trust in counselors for personal gain, especially shall not have indecent words and deeds to the opposite sex.
5. When the psychological counselor thinks that he is not suitable for consulting the helper, he should explain clearly to the helper in a responsible attitude and introduce him to another suitable psychological counselor or doctor.
6. Psychological counselors should always strictly abide by the principle of confidentiality.