Smell roses: tiny and warm light in life

Quigo, I'm sitting at my son's desk at the moment, and the sun shines through the glass window and drives away the cold winter. The weather is very warm, and the silver wedding anniversary is here. Looking at the photos saved in the computer, the past years, the scenery I have seen in the past 25 years, every moment, like the tiny warm light in life, slowly flows in my heart, making ordinary days shine:

? There is a kiss and a warm hug in the morning.

? There is a knowing smile, and there is a fall when playing.

? There are allusions that ridicule each other, and there is Enron walking by the river.

There is running all over the mountain and the coolness of swimming in the Han River.

There are tears of injustice when left out, and tenderness between fingers that help blow hair.

There is thoughtfulness in the kitchen, and the basked quilt is full of sunshine.

? This is a wonderful time for family members to experience together.

? It is these tiny warm lights in life that gently caress our days and warm our hearts.

There is only one life, and life cannot be repeated. Looking back 25 years, although the stars have changed, Queequeg has always been there. Although things have changed, what remains unchanged is the care and love for his family. Christopher Meng said, "Intimacy is a bridge to the soul". We have gone through 25 years of ups and downs hand in hand, learning and growing in intimacy, and slowly changing. It has already penetrated into each other's bone marrow, and sometimes it will inevitably hurt, but as long as you try to dredge and change, everything is not a problem. In fact, each of us has limitations. The reason why we sometimes get angry is because I hate Quigo's indifference to me sometimes, which makes me fall into a bad mood. When I look at my heart, I find that I am unhappy because I feel neglected, and this neglect may be brought to me by my family. My parents separated when I was a child, so I didn't have time to take care of our sisters. I am eager for attention and intimate interaction. These may be the needs that have been sleeping for many years. When I realized this, I suddenly stopped blaming Queequeg and looked forward to him. As long as I have expectations, I will be disappointed. When I put them down, I began to understand Queequeg's feelings.

When we learn to reflect and examine from time to time, we will find that if we say the first sentence with criticism, the other party is likely to return this criticism to you, so when I find this, I am often not in a hurry to reply, but wait for my emotions to pass and reflect and examine with you. Afterwards, I will feel that when your tone is criticized, the original good advice will lead to a bad mood because of the wrong method, and the other party will not listen to you. As long as we are willing to learn, change, introspect, grow, and stumble, how worthwhile it is.

Looking at the photos in the computer, the tides in the ends of the earth, the sunrise in Heima River, the horses in Qilian grassland and the wind in Qinghai Lake, we walked together for many years and went to many places. The dead wood of Wuhua Lake in Jiuzhai is still immortal, the snow in Yulong Snow Mountain has melted, the trees in Shennongjia forest are growing silently, the highland barley under the Zhaga starry sky has been harvested, and the ginkgo trees are green and yellow. Let's go together. Just spend warm time together, the destination is not important, what matters is a safe and comfortable heart. In fact, our life has never changed after a long trip or when we are in the same place. Every day's dreams are growing silently. Life is like a blooming flower, and every day is meaningful. You know, every day is the youngest day for the rest of your life. The so-called husband and wife, father and son, mother and son are actually a farewell. When I think about it, I have a surging force in my heart. Every day deserves to be treated gently. Looking at the sleeping handsome boy and Quigo, your heart is full of joy. I hope you will. Don't let the dust you see cover up your inner light. Great energy is in the distance, in the heart.

? Twenty-five years of spring, summer, autumn and winter, although dull, are so warm and beautiful. The husband is considerate, the son is sensible and healthy. How happy this aunt who is about to enter the destiny is, and everything is so beautiful.

? Life is to enjoy and bear by yourself. In this rolling world of mortals, even if we live a happy life, our hearts will still be eager to leave reality, return to first love, return to childhood and return to our mother's arms. When you look at the sunset and feel lost, when you sigh that your youth has passed away, you are a little unwilling. When you grow up, you know your mission and responsibility, so you cherish the present more. Mature to this, we have a light in our hearts, burning family, friendship, love and the desire for eternity. A little light, like a stream, today, we still have to cross the tunnel of life hand in hand, and there is still a long way to go. There may be dark times, even if we can't see the light, we still hold hands. All imagination in the world is weaker than reality, and all languages are more vain than sincerity, so don't believe in imagination, don't believe in language, and believe in life.

I wish my family and friends health, peace and happiness after 25 years! I only hope that my love will not decrease and my heart will not change! Be a warm person, gentle and generous, clear and clear, rich and peaceful in heart, have your own preferences and principles, have your own beliefs and persistence, be neither humble nor afraid. I hope that no matter how much I have experienced, I can live with a frown. Now I am sincere to everyone, occasionally melodramatic but not artificial, confident, stretching, enjoying the beauty of time, and the scenery of life is one stop at a time. Every year has a year's taste. I hope I can meet myself happily after 25 years and appreciate each other!

Today is the silver wedding anniversary, Queequeg. Let's enter a new era hand in hand.