"When you come to our house in the future, don't speak ill of my daughter-in-law in front of my mother." "What do you think of me saying that an outsider is embarrassed?"

It is not easy for both men and women to enter marriage, but the difference between them is not easy either. Take a woman for example. Entering marriage means entering another family and gradually adapting to this family, but the process of adaptation may not be so easy, because everyone has his own personality and characteristics, and there is not so much innocence in the adult world, just like many families have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, in addition to the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, some families will also have contradictions with their sister-in-law.

No, a woman said that she felt very wronged because she felt that her brother had spoken ill of his daughter-in-law in front of his mother after he got married. When his brother knew about this, he rushed over and said that he would come to our house in the future. Don't speak ill of his wife in front of his mother. I answered him, what's wrong with a person? She is in a state of confusion now, and she doesn't know if she said this sentence correctly. Personally, I think this woman is really not wronged! My brother is right, too

0 1. This woman sued her sister-in-law.

In fact, this woman is married, but because she married a soldier, there was no one at home for a long time. Even at home, she can only stay with her mother-in-law, so this woman always runs to her mother-in-law's house when something happens. After all, it is the most familiar place and the most comfortable place for her.

This woman's brother got married late. He was delayed by falling in love before. So, after careful search, he found his later daughter-in-law, and the woman's younger brother was relatively satisfied. They lived a happy life after they got married.

Because this daughter-in-law is introverted, and because she just got married, she doesn't speak much with everyone, so she may not say so much. The woman said that she was unhappy and complained to her mother, and those words were directly heard by her brother. Of course, this is not the time of 1. Brother replied directly to her sister this time. Women are not to be outdone, saying that they are accusing an outsider.

02. Women's misunderstanding

First of all, I want to say that my brother's approach is actually correct. In fact, the harmony of a family depends largely on the role of the bridge and communicator in the middle. My brother and daughter-in-law have just married into their own homes, and they may be really uncomfortable in many aspects, and what's wrong with saying it or not? As a sister, even if you are dissatisfied with this matter, don't talk to your mother, because her mother will only understand this problem from a one-sided perspective, which may make her dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law, and then any problems will arise, and contradictions will be more difficult to solve.

Moreover, after this woman was told by her younger brother, she still thought she was talking about an outsider. This is a completely wrong idea. When that woman marries her brother, it means that from that moment on, you will really become a family. Although it is impossible to ask everyone to fall in love at once, at least from the beginning, you should not treat others as outsiders.