Speaking of son's marriage, I believe most parents will feel headache. Recently, neighbor Lao Liu is worrying about his son's marriage.
The house is almost all our possessions, so we can't just add a name.
Lao Liu has an only son and has never found a girlfriend. He and his wife were heartbroken. Now my son has finally found a girlfriend, but Lao Liu is not happy at all, because the conditions she put forward embarrassed Lao Liu.
It turns out that my son's girlfriend would rather have less or no bride price and add a name to the room book. Lao Liu certainly can't agree. This house is almost all the possessions he has struggled for most of his life. Of course, it cannot be said that adding a name is adding a name. Without names, other girls will break up with their sons, which is unacceptable to their sons.
Lao Liu's education level is not high, and he has no skills, but thanks to his quick mind when he first arrived in the city, he changed from a wage earner to a small boss in a few years. Although I have been a boss in recent years and earned some money, Lao Liu has always earned hard money because of his educational level.
In those years, for business, Lao Liu delayed the training of his son, and his son didn't go to school at last. In addition, he was not with his parents since he was a child, and his personality has always been inferior and introverted. In Lao Liu's words, my son is a bit "stupid". Although he always wanted to find a wife for his son, he was afraid that his son would be cheated.
So this time, my son suddenly brought his girlfriend back, and he insisted on adding a name to the room book, so Lao Liu had an extra heart. He said that the bride price can be discussed, but there is nothing to talk about except adding a room book. He didn't want his daughter-in-law to take half of his property before she came in.
I don't want a bride price, but my name must be added, otherwise I always feel like a guest in this family.
The reason why Lao Liu is so cautious is that the market value of the house he gave his son to get married has soared to more than 3 million. If you add the name of your son's girlfriend, he will take 1.5 million directly, but if you talk to her about the bride price, it is impossible to get that high.
Moreover, after seeing the girls on both sides, Lao Liu and his wife thought that their son would definitely be a henpecked wife in the future. Besides, the divorce rate is so high now. If my son divorced that day, it wouldn't be giving away half a house for nothing, so my son didn't say anything. They had to say, after all, they saved the money one by one.
The girl listened to Liu's meaning and disagreed. She said that she was not greedy for money, but wanted a sense of belonging and security. If the room doesn't have its own name, she always feels that she is a guest in this family, so she would rather not give the bride price and add a name to the room.
Liu's son thinks what his girlfriend said is reasonable, but Liu doesn't think so. He believes that the reason why sons and girlfriends don't want bride price is that the bride price can't be high and the house price will keep rising. However, Liu did not tell his son about this, but secretly calculated it in his mind.
He told his son that we only have one son anyway. At that time, after one hundred years, everything in the house is not yours. Why are you in such a hurry to add names now?
But my son and girlfriend don't care so much, saying that since they are given late and early, why not give them early?
The careless words of her son and girlfriend made Lao Liu feel that she not only cared about the house, but also cursed him to die quickly. So he changed from advising his son and girlfriend not to add their names to advising his son and girlfriend to break up.
The son complained that his son and girlfriend refused to compromise, and Lao Liu wanted to sell the house in a rage.
My son finally found a woman he liked, but of course he didn't agree to break up. Moreover, when he saw that his girlfriend meant to break up, he vented all his grievances on Lao Liu, complaining that he didn't consider his lifelong events.
Lao Liu knows his son, and he really can't tell how hard it is. In the face of his son's daily coercion and his girlfriend's intransigence, he finally got angry and said that since you are all staring at this suite, I would simply sell the house and keep the money for my own pension. what do you want to do?
I think it's hard to get angry with Liu. He has a quick mind.
In fact, judging from the performance of his son and girlfriend, Lao Liu's worry is not unreasonable. I don't think the elderly should pin all their hopes on their children, so I firmly support that the house should not be named and the bride price can be discussed. What did you say?/Sorry?