Two young people who have never experienced social baptism, as long as they can walk into each other's eyes, will devote themselves to this relationship without hesitation, and will not consider each other's family or this person's future. They just hold their favorite feelings and embrace this relationship.
It is precisely because this relationship is very simple from the beginning, and it is a matter of two people from the beginning, not two families, so it is even more invincible and makes their love stand the test more.
Give an example around you.
Meng Xiao and her boyfriend Xiao Hao got together in their sophomore year. Meng Xiao is good at science, and Xiao Hao is good at liberal arts. They often help each other and learn from each other's strengths. After a while, the two fell in love and finally determined the relationship.
After the college entrance examination, they applied for the same school. Meng Xiao majored in mathematics and Xiao Hao majored in literature.
When Xiao Hao arrived at the university, he slacked off his study. In order not to let Xiao Hao fail, Meng Xiao remembers Xiao Hao's class schedule and calls Xiao Hao before each class to remind him to get up for class. After four years in college, urged by Meng Xiao, Xiao Hao didn't fail a single course.
Later, Meng Xiao decided to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and Xiao Hao also gave Meng Xiao 100% support. In order to let Meng Xiao have a rest, she will get up early to help Meng Xiao find a seat in the library and study in the library with Meng Xiao. Every time Meng Xiao feels discouraged and wants to give up, Xiao Hao will encourage and comfort her.
A year later, Meng Xiao was successfully admitted to graduate school, and Xiao Hao returned to his hometown to find a job. They plan to get married after graduate school in Meng Xiao.
However, in his second year as a graduate student in Meng Xiao, Xiao Hao had an accident on his way to work. Strangely, Xiao Hao's electric car collided with a motorcycle, which would not have caused much damage, but accidentally broke his knee.
Meng hurried home overnight after knowing it, but Xiao Hao was too badly injured and had to go to a big city for treatment. Considering the accommodation problem in the hospital, Meng Xiao was the only one who accompanied Xiao Hao, and Meng Xiao was the only one who took care of both the operation signing and postoperative care.
Meng Xiaofei was often afraid that the operation would not go smoothly and that Xiao Hao would never stand up again, but Meng Xiao never wanted to leave Xiao Hao.
Because she knows that she can go today because of Xiao Hao's encouragement and support. Even if Xiao Hao really can only live in a wheelchair from now on, she will not leave him, because they have long regarded each other as family and have to carry everything together.
Many people think that love in school is a joke, and love without considering the future and reality is unreliable. They only see the fragility of that love, but ignore the power that only pure love can derive.
I remember seeing such a question on the internet, which was put forward by a person who has been working. He has been in love with his girlfriend for two years and was introduced by his family. They hit it off and began to prepare for the wedding, but just one month before the wedding, his girlfriend had a car accident and now she is bedridden and her legs have been amputated.
Faced with such a result, his parents advised him not to get married, and he could not live in the future. And his girlfriend's parents advised him not to break up with his daughter. What should she do if he proposes to break up now?
In fact, in the face of his girlfriend, he already had the answer in his heart. He doesn't want to spend the rest of his life. He hesitated because he didn't know how to break up and how to face his painful parents.
In the world of adults, love is never pure love. Before you start dating, your mind is full of money, such as how the other person's family is, how high the salary is, whether you have a local hukou, whether you have a car or a house, and so on.
It is precisely because their love is not pure enough that when there are some unexpected accidents, when the other party no longer meets their own interests, and when the other party becomes their own burden, they will choose to leave without hesitation.
Many people regret not having a campus love. Many people lament that it is harder to fall in love when you grow up. In fact, it is not that it is difficult to fall in love, but that people's hearts become complicated in the process of growing up. It is impossible to talk about a pure love like campus.
Love in school is pure and selfless. Only at that age can we have the courage to pay for each other and create true love beyond difficulties.