Dad wears a skirt to teach his daughter to prevent exposure to the sun. The father wears a flowered skirt to show his daughter how to avoid exposure when the girl wears a skirt. He is very interesting, breaking down several movements for children. For example, how to sit down without taking off your clothes in a skirt, how to get up correctly, and how to tie your shoes in a short skirt. ...
Every movement, he is very slow, and he is committed to letting his daughter see clearly and learn clearly. To tell the truth, his actions must be exaggerated. In reality, no girl will jump away with her skirt in her arms when she gets up. But what is certain is that he is at least trying to teach his daughter to protect herself.
It stands to reason that such boasting is right. The father didn't miss his children's education process, and he was willing to wear a skirt to be a man, making his daughter aware of gender differences, even if the method was not accurate enough, it was commendable.
From a "technical" point of view, this father's approach seems funny, but it is very practical. First of all, the father gave the child a lesson on self-protection. With the growth of age, every child should learn to protect himself, especially girls, who may need to learn and understand more. Preventing exposure is not only the common sense of adult women, but also the little girl should gradually establish this awareness and develop good self-protection habits.
Secondly, it is also a gender education lesson for children. In fact, children have been aware of gender since they were very young and need the necessary guidance and education from their parents. Let children have a clear understanding of their own gender and a basic understanding of gender differences.
Third, it is also a social etiquette class. What clothes to wear and what you should look like on any occasion are not only the need to maintain your image, but also the respect for others.
The sooner sex education begins, the better. Under normal circumstances, children around the age of 3 have begun to establish the concept of gender. At this time, they began to know the difference between men and women. At this time, they can simply carry out sex education.
Scientific investigation shows that gender education received by children plays a more important role in early childhood than in adolescence. Many examples show that most people who have a good impression on the same sex are caused by some experiences in childhood. My Yuanbao became gender-conscious when she was about two and a half years old. When going to the toilet, he would let his mother out and tell her, "I'm a boy." Sometimes, he knocks at the door and enters his sister's room. Her sister is changing clothes. As soon as she called, he quit voluntarily and went to the mall to go to the bathroom. He will ask him to take him to the men's room.
Sometimes Ma Bao takes him to the ladies' room alone, but he still refuses to go in and has to do ideological work for half a day. In China, however, gender education is not perfect. Kindergarten children often use the same toilet regardless of gender, regardless of the huge impact of toilet separation on children's gender discrimination. Therefore, both parents and kindergartens should realize that gender education is very important for children aged three to six. We should teach some basic knowledge so that children can know themselves correctly and protect themselves.