When you are alive, you will meet thousands of people in Qian Qian, but few people can really walk into their hearts and become friends. Whether a person deserves to make friends is really important.
Appreciating a person begins with face value, respects talent, fits personality, and ends with kindness and character.
My friend Li Ge is a big brother whom I admire very much. I can get to know him because I have dinner with my friends.
Although Li Ge is not that kind of beautiful woman, and even a little bald, it has not affected his position in the eyes of others. As long as he is mentioned, it can be said that almost everyone knows him, which is mainly due to his personality in dealing with people.
Li Ge is now the vice president of an investment company. He has done a lot of business, so he has rich life experience. According to friends, Li Ge is brave and honest.
He used to do coal business with friends and made a lot of money in the past few years, but what happened later almost turned him from a rich man into a loser.
This happens because Li Ge is responsible for transporting a batch of coal. When it arrives at the port destination, customers want to lower the price for various reasons and delay the receipt and payment. Li Ge, they want to have a stalemate with their customers, but losing so much coal every day is not a small expense.
Finally, after discussing with the partners, Li Ge decided to unload the coal at the customer's side first, and then further discuss the payment method. It was this decision that led to irreparable losses later.
I thought the goods were unloaded and the terms and time of payment were agreed. Li Ge and others are just waiting to collect money, but I didn't expect to wait for several years. The other party only paid the advance payment in the early stage, and the leaders of the subsequent final payment changed because of the company restructuring, but this part of the money was not paid.
The most fatal thing is that the person in charge at that time only verbally promised when to pay the money, and Li Ge didn't think much at that time. He thought that the other party was a big enterprise and should be honest, so he didn't ask the other party to sign any written contract.
In the end, the customer has consumed most of the coal, but the money has not yet arrived. Li Ge went to the customer for many times, but was turned away for various reasons.
It can be said that Li Ge had a miserable time. After all, it is a loan of millions. If you don't get it back, the capital chain will be broken. Many workers in the mine still have to wait for wages to support their families, and various expenses also make him and his partners overwhelmed.
This stalemate is always bad, so Li Ge decided to take out all his savings for many years, pay the workers' wages first, and then pay them in a hurry. The partner also took out some money, and he and Li Ge made up the money gap.
It is said that adversity sees truth and adversity sees character. When Li Ge was in the ascendant, many people tried their best to get close to him, curry favor with him and share a bowl of soup with him. When Li Ge really needed help, many people avoided it.
Borrowing money is like a touchstone, which tests not only the sincerity of the other party, but also the feelings of two people. Borrowing money depends on credit, and paying back money shows character. You can still earn money if you spend it, but it is difficult to establish credit if you lose it.
Sister Bi and I met a few years ago when we were learning to drive. Because I don't live far away, I sometimes eat and go shopping together. I thought this feeling would last forever, but I didn't expect Bi Jie to become someone I didn't want to mention.
Bi Jie's husband is in the real estate business, and a lot of money is on the project. Because the payment is not timely, there is not much money in hand. In the eyes of others, they look glamorous, but in fact they are relatively poor. Later, I realized that I actually owed a lot of money to others outside.
I remember that in August the year before last, Bijie's daughter was admitted to the university. Because she was worried about tuition, she came to me and asked me if I had enough money and wanted to borrow 10 thousand yuan from me. Said to pay me back in a month. I didn't think much at that time, thinking that since she promised to pay it back in a month, she only had 10 thousand yuan in her hand.
It's easy to lend money to people who don't keep their promises, but it's really hard to get it back. It also made me see the character of Bijie. I went to her house many times and asked her to pay back the money. She has been crying and running away.
The most incredible thing for me is that the last time I went to her house, I saw the seal posted on her door by the court. Because she owed too much money outside, she was sued and the house she lived in was auctioned by the court. But Bi Jie himself disappeared, just like disappearing out of thin air. The phone can't get through, and WeChat doesn't return.
It is often said that it is easier to borrow than to borrow. Helping each other is the principle of making friends, and being honest and trustworthy is the principle of being a man. By borrowing money, I deeply felt the fragility of our relationship. I have been in sincere contact with her, and as a result, she has ulterior motives for me.
Who you are with is really important. Personality determines whether you want to be close to this person. Even people with bad intentions will always believe: give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand!
I hope that in the days to come, we will have more sincere friends around us, and our sincere feelings will not be disappointed.