My high school classmate Xiaoxu met his ex-girlfriend Xiao Nan by chance. Xiao Nan is a cashier in a supermarket near Xiaoxu Company. Because Xiaoxu always goes to the supermarket to buy things, they meet and say hello.
On one occasion, Xiao Nan asked Xiaoxu to help pretend to be her boyfriend to get rid of her ex-boyfriend's harassment. Xiaoxu agreed for the purpose of saving the United States, and successfully got Xiao Nan out of the entanglement of her ex-boyfriend. From then on, the two became good friends who talked about everything and gradually developed into a love relationship.
After falling in love, Xiaoxu is very kind to Xiao Nan, and Xiaoxu will satisfy whatever Xiao Nan wants. But slowly, Xiao Nan stopped asking Xiaoxu to buy things for herself and asked Xiaoxu to spend money for her family.
On Xiao Nan's father's birthday, Xiao Nan specially told Xiaoxu to prepare some expensive gifts for his father's birthday, because his father was going to hold a big banquet, and many relatives and friends would go, so as not to embarrass his family. Xiaoxu's family is ordinary and his income is moderate. In order to make Xiao Nan happy, he spent thousands of dollars to buy a decent gift for Xiao Nan's hometown, which made Xiao Nan and his family very satisfied.
Xiao Nan once again asked Xiaoxu to pay Xiao Nan's parents to decorate the house on the grounds that she would marry Xiaoxu. Xiaoxu knew Xiao Nan from the bottom of his heart, so he didn't think much, so he paid a small hundred thousand dollars to repair Xiao Nan's parents' house.
Xiaoxu spent a lot of money on Xiao Nan. In order to avoid falling asleep, she kept asking Xiao Nan when she would get married. If she doesn't have a wedding for the time being, she can get a license first. Xiao Nan will also find various reasons to shirk at first, and then she will simply say "We'll see" and send Xiaoxu away. Xiaoxu was very nervous. He told several of our good classmates about his worries. We also advised him to get the certificate quickly.
Sure enough, Xiao Nan recently broke up with Xiao Xu on the grounds that she and Xiaoxu were not suitable. Xiaoxu strongly disagreed, but Xiao Nan and Xiaoxu lost contact. When Xiaoxu told us about it, Xiao Nan could not be found. Xiaoxu also said that the relationship between the two people has reached this point, and his feelings for Xiao Nan are actually running out. It's just that the money and energy he spent on Xiao Nan just hit Shui Piao, which made him very unwilling. He wants to keep looking for Xiao Nan and see if he can get the money he spent for her back and try to recover the loss. Although some of our friends sympathize with Xiaoxu, there is nothing we can do. We can only pray that Xiao Nan is not a heartless person.
Through the experience of my classmates, I think the feelings that make you uneasy may be because you are unwilling to pay so much, but there is no return. Force yourself to let go of what you have been expecting without results, and don't let the pain of the past bind you to pursue a better future.
According to the relevant laws and regulations of our country, the money spent by the man for the woman during the period of love cannot be returned after the breakup. The items given to the woman are regarded as gifts, and other consumption is regarded as voluntary expenditure.
civil law
Article 657? A gift contract is a contract in which the donor gives his property to the donee free of charge and the donee expresses his acceptance of the gift.
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