From primary school to graduate school, I have countless classmates, many of whom have forgotten. Once walking on the road, someone called my name, but I was at a loss. Speaking of it, the other person turned out to be my high school classmate, but I don't remember him at all. How embarrassing!
What impressed me deeply was my classmates in high school, college and graduate school. However, when I was a graduate student, everyone was busy, and there were few activities and exchanges together, so I didn't have much feelings and rarely got together after graduation. Usually just a few people having fun get together. Therefore, students from high schools and universities get together more.
High school classmates get together, usually in the same city or hometown during the Spring Festival. In the three years of high school, everyone ate, lived and studied together, and their feelings were still very deep. After graduation, most of them will work in different universities and cities, but they will concentrate in some cities, such as Beishangguang and provincial capital cities. Students who work and live in the same city often organize small parties in order to facilitate contact, enhance feelings and enjoy resources.
As for the Spring Festival reunion, it is held almost every year, and the participants are different every year, but several core figures will definitely be present. During the Spring Festival, everyone returned to their hometown from the city where they worked or lived, and got together when they were free.
College reunion is different. College students come from all parts of the motherland and return to different cities after graduation. It's hard to get together. But after four years in college, everyone has deep feelings, so they will meet for ten or twenty years when they graduate. This is a big formal class reunion.
Our ten-year graduation party was organized by several students in Wuhan. I contacted the graduated university teacher and arranged accommodation in the school hotel. The two-day activities and itinerary were announced among the students. Everyone's fee is charged in advance. Travel expenses are arranged separately.
Before the party, several of our organizers began to ask our classmates one by one by phone whether they would like to come. If you participate, you will be charged 500 yuan per person, and you will be refunded more and replenished less.
After the students come over that day, we will arrange someone to receive them and check into the university hotel. Accommodation is free.
The next morning, all the students arrived. They all went to the lecture hall and asked the former counselor to give us another lesson.
After class, everyone visited the school and went to the canteen for lunch. After lunch, visit the surrounding scenic spots. For example, climbing the Yellow Crane Tower, taking the Yangtze River Bridge and visiting Hubu Lane are all things we often do in college.
In the evening, all the students gathered in the reserved hotel and sat at several big tables, naturally eating and drinking. At this time, gay men learn to drown their sorrows by drinking, and female students who dare not confess before loudly will also generously offer a glass of wine, indicating that everything is nothing to say.
People on the wine table will become more and more casual and play some jokes. For example, when they used to be lovers, the reunion of classmates would be specially arranged on a table to facilitate their communication and untie the previous knot. Let them have a drink if there is something good, and deliberately "twist" them.
After eating and drinking, some students will go back to rest, and some students will continue to sing. At this time, everyone's emotions will be more rampant. If there have been emotional entanglements, it is best not to be together at this time, so as not to really "rekindle the old love."
At that time, college students got together ten years after graduation, and the people who came were still very neat. Basically, there are more than 40 people in the class, and more than three quarters of them are here. Five or six students from other classes also came to attend.
The graduation time was not long at that time, and the gap between us was not obvious. Some people have better family conditions, for example, dad is a big real estate boss or a bank president. None of them came to attend, but they all got along well. Therefore, the cost of our class reunion is also AA, so we share it equally.
Observing the reunion of college students, it is mainly these kinds of people who are more active:
1, work and family are not bad, and life is relatively stable. Come to the class reunion and follow the crowd. You won't feel humiliated. Generally, those who mix badly or mix well are not at the same level as most students, and they will not attend the reunion.
2, the family is stable, and there is no emotional entanglement with classmates. This is evident in female students. I talked to the boys in my class before, but when I heard that the boy was going to attend the class reunion, I stopped.
I once had feelings, but I didn't say them for some reason. Most of these male students secretly loved a girl when they were studying, but they never confessed, so they wanted to say it at the reunion to make up for their regrets. I also want to see how the people I used to like are doing now.
4. Use class reunion to develop resources. Some students, really business material, always want to make money. They won't miss the reunion.
As for the small-scale reunion held by high school and graduate students, it is similar to friends' reunion, but it is different in nature. This kind of small circle, which is composed of several classmates with similar personalities or interests, often meets to deepen feelings and facilitate business.
Many high school students are together based on feelings. For example, classmates come over, or classmates serve wine at home. As for the Spring Festival party, most of them had a good time and many students would not attend.
People who like to attend such parties have several similarities:
1, students who like to have fun and mix well, love to pay the bill and show off when they go to class reunion.
Divorced students hope something will happen at the party.
Those who have old feelings hope to add some life to the lifeless life.
People looking for resources and opportunities hope to get help through class reunion.
Personally, I feel that class reunion, large-scale and formal, can be attended or not, because it is rare once every ten years. Take part once, and take part once less.
As for the small-scale ones, everyone needs what he wants, but it is best to attend with a decent and sincere heart, otherwise he will be disappointed. Whether it's doing business with classmates or developing feelings between classmates, it's hard to achieve a high probability and it will make you embarrassed. Feelings are feelings, and interests are interests. Don't confuse the two.