In order to enable our customers to identify online scammers more quickly and accurately in practice, 2RedBeans sent this online dating fraud prevention guide, hoping that our users can have a more enjoyable online dating experience.
After collecting the personal experiences and main problems reflected by platform users, the routine of online scammers is summarized. If the other person is really a liar, you are likely to experience these three situations:
1, the other person is perfect: handsome, with high emotional intelligence, and shows me that he has fallen in love with me;
It's only two weeks since we met, and the other person said that he would come to see you soon, which makes you feel very lucky.
3. The other person has known you for a short time, and has never made a video, but talked a lot. He told you all his information, detailed and enthusiastic, and attached photos. His experience may be rich and tortuous, which makes you feel that he is an experienced person who can have a soul with you.
In case of the above, we will be very vigilant. No matter what the background information of this man is, if you encounter such ways next, then he must be a liar:
1. After chatting with you for a week, this "perfect object" began to invite you to cancel your online information, or suggested that you register for other websites, saying that there are more photos to talk about;
2. The person who claimed to fly to see you told you near the meeting that he could not come for various reasons;
3. And that experienced man is probably a widow, with a military background, or an engineer in the oil industry or Southeast Asia.
At this time, you are likely to have entered a one-on-one communication state with his email or WeChat. You may have completely lost your judgment. Your emotional cognition may be like this: this "perfect object" has fallen in love with you, and he really wants to see you, but for inevitable reasons, he can't come. The other person is depressed because of this, which makes you have all kinds of complicated feelings: like, appreciate, and feel distressed ... So, you believe in him without thinking, believe in his difficulties, and even want to help. So, the other party starts to ask you a sensitive thing. ...
This sensitive thing is money, money!
Because all online scammers have the same purpose: to cheat money! In any case, he is a 200% liar if he has never met each other and has no in-depth understanding of information such as money and transfer!
However, there are various ways to involve money. For example, the other party may have lost his mobile phone on the eve of coming to see you, and even need your support; Or, the other party sends you something that you need to sign for, but claims to give the government a sum of money to get it; In other words, you talked a lot, involving work, business cooperation and even investment, which made you feel that it is normal to talk about money at this time, and that the other party is very business-minded and wants to help him invest. At this time, you have often lost your rational judgment and fallen into the logical trap of the other party. Normally, for those who really need to make friends, finding the other half is the primary goal, and making money by investing together will not be discussed on the online dating platform. So, be wary of stories that make you feel abnormal and bizarre. As long as he asks you to transfer money, you should recognize his true face, give up contact as soon as possible and report it on the platform.
So, what are the ways for online scammers to cheat?
They often cast nets widely and filter quickly, and have the following 14 characteristics:
The photos of 1. platform are very professional, and the information looks perfect.
2. Soldiers in war-torn areas.
3. In the oil industry, there are no work details and photos, and the contents of the letters are empty.
4. Ready to go to Southeast Asia or work, with industry/engineering/good investment projects.
5. Contractor/MSF/I have a very good job and now I want to find a new investment direction.
6. Emphasize that you are learning from God.
7. Widowed, raising children alone
8, parents died, leaving a legacy or company.
9. Any life experience that sounds rough and unusual.
10, the contents of the letter are particularly comprehensive. A letter tells all the stories, up to the date of birth and height.
1 1, extremely enthusiastic and fast-paced, and I have been calling you dear since then. I really hope I can't fall in love with you right away.
12, very quickly cancel the platform information and tell you that it is for you.
13, inviting you to chat on other dating platforms.
14. Anyone mentions financial information in the early stage of communication.
? | The second type of online scammer |
This situation is often a team battle. Some of them are psychologists, some are beautiful women, and some are brilliant ... They do their own jobs, manage their relationship with you carefully, and communicate with you like friends. This type is usually difficult to detect. They release a lot of information, interspersed with reasonable emotional interaction, step by step, and strive for truth, in order to gain your high trust and thus defraud you of a lot of money.
Because they are registered with normal IP and have a normal communication rhythm, they may not be recognized immediately on the technical level of the platform. However, two 2RedBeans use artificial intelligence to keep machine learning, and they can still filter out some of them. However, we realize that the most important thing is to help our users improve their discrimination. As long as you keep in mind three points and be vigilant, you can find clues as soon as possible:
1, money, this motive is problematic.
2. Trust your sixth sense.
When you meet a liar, you will have some subtle feelings that it is wrong, but you will often suppress your intuition and give yourself various reasons not to ask these "sensitive topics". In fact, your feeling is a strong signal, suggesting that this matter is unreasonable.
3. Being too perfect is always a trap.
Whether it is a perfect object or a high-return investment project, you should set your alarm before moving.
Now, we summarize two types of online scammers. There are two main types of swindlers. First, they cast a wide net, pursue short, flat and fast, and are easier to be screened. Second, long-term fishing for big fish, reasonable rhythm, normal emotional interaction, it is difficult to identify, but it will be aimed at getting a lot of money from you.
At the same time, after encountering online dating scams, many people will have such concerns: If the other party knows my real information, will my own safety be problematic? Please don't worry about this. The main purpose of online scammers is to make money. When they don't achieve their goals, they won't come to you across the region. Because this will increase costs and risks for them, please don't worry about your personal safety.
Two 2RedBeans technical teams have been exploring various methods to identify and screen online scammers. In addition to the website and app push dating tips, our background technology also has settings such as system identification IP, suspicious behavior screening, and user report review. In addition, face recognition technology and real-name authentication are also under our consideration and attempt.
At the same time, if you want to get more experience support, you can also participate in our offline training camp or offline one-on-one consulting service. We will provide more comprehensive information guidance to ensure your network security in all directions. Two red beans
We will continue to strive to create a more pure and pleasant online dating environment, and sincerely wish everyone an early harvest of happiness!