Of course, being a woman should be intellectual, elegant and pleasing to the eye. Moreover, she is a fashionable, decent and attractive woman who respects others, cherishes herself and knows how to live. However, in this article, I mean that women should know their sexual needs and science.
Feminism, as its name implies, is a branch of gynecology. Because of the complexity of gynecology, sexual problems have not been paid enough attention, but its significance is not limited to gynecology, but also extends to psychology and sociology. In recent years, the treatment of male sexual dysfunction has made gratifying progress, but the understanding of female sexual problems is still in the fog. Women should first see a gynecologist for sexually transmitted diseases.
In 2008, when I was studying obstetrics and gynecology in Tongji, I met a lot of frigid people in the busy outpatient and ward work. They have no experience of orgasm and lack the most basic sexual physiological response and enjoyment. So I sympathize with these patients and boast in front of my roommates that I will publish a monograph on nature medicine to solve the problems faced by this group in the future. However, after ten years, I have made no progress in this regard. What a pity!
As a gynecologist, even without special research in this field, we can't answer and deal with these questions irresponsibly. When a patient asks a sexual question that is important to him or bothers him for a long time, if the doctor answers casually, it is likely to hurt the patient. Because doctors are always the most authoritative to patients, any answer that lacks the power to wipe holes may cause many unpleasant consequences.
Doctors must be cautious when dealing with such problems, and never draw some extreme conclusions about sexual problems. This will not only be futile, but also cause emotional fluctuations of patients and even have adverse effects on patients. In today's information explosion society, doctors should constantly learn new knowledge and stay advanced forever. If they fall behind, they won't go to see a doctor, and it will also lead to mental illness of patients.
A well-known local gynecologist said to a middle-aged woman who complained of sexual difficulties, "How old are you and still care about this kind of thing?" The patient's face turned red at once, and he was so ashamed that he wanted to dig a hole in the ground. The doctor's words poured cold water on the elderly women who were pursuing sexual pleasure, as if telling the patients to wait for death directly. When she gets old, she won't have to pursue sex.
The deviation of doctors' sexual concepts and attitudes, ignorance and abandonment of sexual health and sexual health care, and blunt and clumsy language can not handle these problems with their authoritative roles. As a mature and experienced doctor, she must be very sensitive, rigorous and responsible, especially not to label patients easily, which will have a negative impact on the self-esteem and health of patients or consultants.
If the patient or counselor is not properly given a hat that does not belong to him, it is likely to turn a problem into a disease and a difficulty into an injury. In short, it will aggravate the illness or the psychological pressure of patients, and then affect the interaction between doctors and patients, especially the trust of patients in doctors.
Of course, as a female doctor in obstetrics and gynecology, we should be intellectual, and as a woman, we should also be intellectual. Sexual desire actually means the combination of spirit and flesh, on the one hand, it is sincere and gentle love in psychology, on the other hand, it is fascinating desire in physiology. The Internet has become an important treasure house, reminding people that adult women need some fuel to burn their own flames, just like men. In this era, once taboos are being broken. Women even rely on sexual fantasies to meet their own needs, which will become a fashion in the future.
Also, sexual demand is not based on human will, it is as eternal and important as the sun, the moon and the river.