On the contrary, if they are quiet girls and bad women, I firmly believe that many men will choose quiet girls, but in fact, many men love bad women more.
Maybe many friends think Tianya is not necessarily right, but it is usually the case in real life. Tianya, why do you say that? Let's have a look and you'll know. , 3 1 year old, married for five years. My husband is the director of a foreign-funded enterprise and has a 4-year-old child. His living standard is not bad.
Xiao Yao and her husband are good friends At that time, her husband had just stepped out of a relationship, and Xiaoyao was blank in love.
For such Xiaoyao, under her husband's strong pursuit of perfection, she felt the love and elegance from a man for the first time. Every day, my husband drives Xiaoyao to work, and he is also very considerate of Xiaoyao.
Accompanied by sick people, unhappy people, shopping and watching TV dramas, at this moment, Xiaoyao felt that as a woman, she was really happy to have such a boyfriend. Two people quickly entered the marriage hall. How can I save my husband when I have a child?
The married life is also quite happy. A year later, Xiao Yao was pregnant. In order to take better care of the baby, Xiao Yao resolutely quit her job and became a housewife.
Due to Xiaoyao's lack of care in family relations, his father died early, and his mother paid less attention to taking better care of Xiaoyao's sisters' study and life. Because of this, Xiao Yao hopes to get more love in his own home.
I just gave birth to a baby, and I don't know what happened. Xiao Yao's temper suddenly changed. It may be that his mood fluctuated greatly after giving birth, and he often quarreled with his husband because of some trivial matters! Sometimes I accidentally say something that hurts each other.
Some people say that this is probably postpartum depression. At that time, Xiao Yao didn't care too much. Her husband understands Xiaoyao's hardships after giving birth to a baby. He always lets Xiao Yao go casually, without arguing, and often comforts him.
After the child grew up, Xiao Yao discussed with her husband and wanted to go to work. But the husband disagreed, saying that he could earn money to support his family at present, and Xiao Yao had a hard time after giving birth to a baby. It is most important to take care of the children now, and go to work after the children go to school in a few years.
At that time, Xiao Yao was very happy to listen to her husband. It's really true that my husband can understand himself like this.
For women, a woman's happiness in marriage is to expect a man who loves her and likes her! This is more important than anything.
That's it. Xiao Yao has been taking care of this family wholeheartedly. In the eyes of good friends, this is just a rare wife. It is said that Xiaoyao's husband is so lucky. But what Xiaoyao never dreamed was that after five years of marriage, her love with her husband gradually faded.
Husband will no longer pay attention to himself and his son, and will come home very late every night. I usually sleep or play games at home whenever I have time, and the children cry.
Gradually, there are more and more emotional problems. In frequent disputes, Xiaoyao also feels that her husband is becoming less and less fond of her and even despises Xiaoyao.
What makes Xiaoyao even more miserable is that there are more and more disputes between her husband and Xiaoyao, and they are all going to be separated. In a rage, Xiao Yao returned to her mother's house with her children. But at the thought of today's marriage, Xiao Yao doesn't know what to do.
At the suggestion of his best friend, Xiao Yao tried to save his marriage, but gradually "deteriorated".
In the past, Xiaoyao was very considerate of her husband. As long as her husband asked, Xiaoyao would agree. Now my husband despises himself, so he simply gives each other some space, indoor space. Didn't stick to her husband, deliberately snubbed him.
You won't be alone when you meet something. If I am in trouble, I will ask my husband for help. It was not easy for Xiao Yao to lose his temper when he was unhappy.
Her husband doesn't agree with Xiao Yao's work. Xiaoyao not only went to work, but also dressed himself comfortably. Because I had a baby, my body was out of shape, so I also signed up for yoga fitness with my friends.
Unexpectedly, after many months, Xiao Yao once again showed his elegance, which is simply a woman who gave birth to a child. There are many good friends around, and many people think that she or single men and women want to find her.
Surprisingly, due to the change of Xiaoyao, her husband became interested in Xiaoyao again. The more "black belly" ignored him, the better he was. Pay more attention to Xiao Yao and his son.
Finally, Xiao Yao once again realized her husband's love.
In life, we often see that usually good women are not cherished and deeply loved by men. On the contrary, bad women have always had many friends of the opposite sex.
In fact, many times women are asking for trouble. Good women always spoil men, and bad women know how to manipulate men.
Good women always feel that as long as they are considerate of men, men will be good to themselves if they are dead set on themselves. And _ fruit is often unexpected.
A bad woman will know how to manipulate a man with his little mind. A lot of understanding shows the elegance of women and makes men love you more! Understand that men are not used to it, and the more spoiled they are, the bolder they are!
In short, marriage is actually a kind of life, and life is ordinary. And _ after a long time, it is inevitable to feel boring. Very boring. That kind of marriage can't make the other person feel the beauty and happiness of marriage.
Sometimes, if a woman is moderately "bad" in marriage, it will not only add a lot of happiness to marriage, but also add a lot of color to an ordinary life, and men will love you more and more.
In marriage, sometimes, men look down on women, not because women are not good enough, but because women do too well. Many women love too much in marriage, and love has no moral bottom line.
I think that if you give yourself as much as possible to the man you love, the man will definitely love you. I don't know, but I have spoiled that man for a long time.
For some women, body shape, appearance and dress are very popular with every man, but it will also cause visual fatigue after a long time. Women will not only dress up or not, but also understand men's hobbies.
In marriage emotion, women should learn communication skills with men, and be a "charming" and feminine woman, rather than a "natural" good woman.
How can I save my husband when I have a child? Learn to "abuse" men moderately and be a "bad" woman that men love more. Then men will not be easily despised by men. That kind of marriage will last longer.