Take a family with two brothers as an example. Many parents will love their younger brothers more, so it is natural for them to help them. It is worthwhile for a son to spend a lot of money on his younger son after he gets married.
Before Chen Xin got married, she knew that her husband Xie Qiang had a younger brother who was six years younger than him. At that time, her parents advised her to be careful not to be cheated by her mother-in-law. In case his brother wants him to raise her in the future, she will be in big trouble. Fortunately, Xie Qiang swore that she wouldn't interfere in her brother's affairs in the future, so she gave up.
Because Xie Qiang's family's economy was not very good, they got married for three years, and Chen Xin's family gave some money. In addition, over the years, they have saved several years of down payment, and the mother-in-law did not give a penny. Chen Xin knew about his family and said nothing.
Living together over the years, Chen Xin always feels that this mother-in-law is much better than Xie Qiang to her brother-in-law. My brother-in-law lives with her, and she will only give him any benefits. My brother-in-law doesn't want to go out to work at home, and she also gives in to everything. I remember that Xie Qiang once said "I feel like a pickpocket, and I have been hated since I was a child".
In the fifth year of marriage, their jobs have been greatly improved. At this time, Chen Xin was pregnant. Xie Qiang felt sorry for her and didn't want her to squeeze the bus every time she went to the hospital. So she discussed buying a car for two people. Chen Xin's family didn't say anything except 50,000. Who let her family have only one daughter?
But the news of buying a car somehow reached her mother-in-law, who called her that night and scolded her.
"Daughter-in-law, I know your family is rich. I don't care how you spend money before marriage, but you should be frugal after marriage. You just bought a house a few years ago, and now you have a car. Isn't it pregnant and crowded to take the bus? How can you be more exquisite when others can? Besides, you didn't buy a house at your brother-in-law, so why did you buy a car? " .
But Chen Xin is not an easy man to mess with. He immediately replied: "Mother-in-law, it's none of our business for brother-in-law to buy a house. That is your son, not mine. I have no obligation to pay him. Besides, when I bought the house, you didn't have any money. And you see clearly that the car was bought by my family, and you are not qualified to point at me here. "
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In this case, the mother-in-law only thinks about her youngest son, and even her eldest son has to use her own money to interfere with buying a car. To put it bluntly, she hopes that they will take out the money to buy a house for their youngest son. Fortunately, Chen Xin's aggressive response broke her mind.
Some people in life are like this. The more you tolerate her, the more she likes to push her luck and even interfere in your life. In the face of such people, blind tolerance will only make you bullied even worse. Only when you are more domineering than her, will she know that you are really annoying.