A 45-year-old man pampered his mentally ill wife for ten years and resigned. How did he do it?

In Chakoupu Village, Banqiao, Shangluo City, Shaanxi Province, a middle-aged man in his forties anxiously shouted, "Li Fang, Li Fang ..." His skin was dark and he was wearing old clothes. From village to village, he finally saw a familiar figure, and his weather-beaten face was full of surprises. He gently pulled the person in front of him with his calloused hand. "I found you, go home."

Zhang Anjia, 45, is from Shangluo, Shaanxi. Because of her poor family, Zhang Anjia only went to primary school. /kloc-started exercising at the age of 0/7. From Xi 'an to Shaanxi, he did a lot of work intermittently, such as moving bricks, mending tires, picking up sundries, digging coal, and also doing demolition work. After more than ten years of development, Zhang Anjia's starting salary is about 3,000 yuan per month from 60 yuan. In 2008, relatives introduced Zhang Anjia to his wife Guo, who was four years younger than him. At that time, Zhang Anjia knew that his wife was mentally ill, but considering his family situation and age, Zhang Anjia accepted it and they got married in the spring of 2009.

After marriage, the wife will get sick from time to time, often talking nonsense and running around. Zhang Anjia never complains about her wife every time she looks around. At the end of 20 10, their child Zhang Xintong was born. In order to take care of his wife and son, Zhang Anjia never went out to work again. "As long as you do odd jobs in the village, plus farming and subsistence allowances in the village, your annual income will be around 3,000 yuan." Zhang Anjia said: "I also know that if you go out to work, the conditions at home will be much better, but when my wife is sick, I can't take care of my son." I can only look after them at home. "Although my wife is mentally ill, Zhang Anjia loves her very much. Everyone in the village knows that the couple have a good relationship. Married for ten years, never quarreled. Sometimes when his wife is sick and running, Zhang Anjia says there will be contradictions between them. He found that he didn't lose his temper. He just held her hand and went home. He would be angry, but considering his wife's illness, he went out to calm himself down: "I can't quarrel with her because she is ill." Zhang Anjia took his wife and said with a smile.

Guo's wife said that sometimes she knew her illness and sometimes she didn't. With a sad face, Guo said in dialect, "I'll look around when I'm sick." When I woke up, I didn't remember anything. I'm afraid of getting sick. He will look for me everywhere and take care of me. " Guo knows in her heart that her husband has done too many things for herself, and she can only do so when she is awake. Try to take care of my husband and children, wash dishes and cook for them, and do my best.

In order to make the family live a better life, Zhang Anjia plans to start raising sheep next year. He hopes to raise 40 sheep. Zhang Anjia said that he had this idea two years ago, but his family was too poor to raise sheep. Although there is no money, Zhang Anjia is determined not to accept charity from others. He said, "This is not your own. You can't take it, and you can't give it for nothing. Everyone's money is hard-won money. Don't be down to earth. "

"I am not afraid of suffering, not afraid of being tired. I just want to work hard to make money and live alone. " Zhang Anjia put her arms around her wife and her eyes were full of perseverance. For Zhang Anjia, the family must be maintained. He attaches great importance to his wife and children and hopes that his family will have a better life. He can only move forward, because behind him, he needs to rely on his family.