After that, in order to support her two children, she had to go back to work and earn money to raise her children. This job is to travel all over the country. This walk is ten years, and she has never been separated from her family. How many decades does life last? Was it the right choice to act like this at the beginning?
In 2020, 70-year-old Sheng Hailin decided to return to his two children and spend the rest of his life with them. Sheng Hailin saw the loveliness and beauty of her children in the process of accompanying them. She hoped that she could live long enough for her two children to get married and have children. At the same time, she was deeply moved. "I really shouldn't have given birth to me."
"She fell in love with the piano when she was 7 years old, so I spent years of savings and spent 5,000 yuan to buy her a piano," Sheng Hailin said. Because Tingting is an only child, Sheng Hailin dotes on her. As long as the child wants it, try to satisfy her.
In September 2008, my daughter Tingting got married. Sheng Hailin thought this life had been completed, but just as she was preparing to retire and enjoy her old age, waiting for her grandson, a sudden accident happened.
On the fifth day of the first month of 2009, Tingting and her husband returned to Anhui's husband's home for the New Year, but died unexpectedly due to gas poisoning. The alarm of the ambulance broke the original happiness. Sheng Hailin burst into tears when she saw the body of her daughter's son-in-law in the hospital. She felt that the rest of her life was helpless and meaningless.
Sheng Hailin suffered the loss of her daughter, but at the same time, she also had an unusual and shocking idea. She wants to be a mother again through modern advanced technology IVF surgery.
She used to be a doctor. Although this decision made her feel crazy, she did it anyway.
Sheng Hailin went to hospitals in Beijing and Nanjing to complete the plan, but they were all rejected. Finally, in a hospital in Hefei, the reproductive doctor agreed to her request and agreed to perform IVF surgery for her, but it can guarantee a certain success.
20 10 On May 25th, 7 months after IVF operation, Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters as she wished. She named her two daughters Wu Shangzhi and Wu respectively, taking the words "wisdom" and "wisdom" respectively. Sheng Hailin, who is in her sixties, has experienced massive bleeding, systemic pain and edema, which is unimaginable danger and torture for young pregnant women.
In the corridor of the hospital, surrounded by doctors and nurses, Sheng Hailin's husband happily held his newborn twin daughters.
The birth of twin daughters eased Sheng Hailin's pain of losing her daughter. Looking at the lovely sleeping face of the child, time seems to have returned to the time when she was a mother decades ago. But her body told her that she was not as strong as before.
September 2, 20 10, a hundred days of wisdom. 201165438+1October 30th, Sheng Hailin and children wearing new hats. On March 5th, 20 12, Hui Hui cried for a hug from his mother who had just come home from a business trip. Later, the family invited at most two nannies to help with the children, and the monthly expenses reached more than 30,000. In front of the two underage children, the little pension money that Sheng Hailin and her husband have is simply not enough. However, there is still a very real problem. The couple are in a sweet time. "Maybe they will die one day," said Sheng Hailin. "At least they can be guaranteed to live a well-fed life and receive a normal education before adulthood."
20 15, my husband had a stroke, and no one could help her share the burden on her shoulders. Sheng Hailin said that it was the most difficult time in her life. "During the Spring Festival, the nannies all went home, and I have to take care of three people alone. I can't help crying when no one is around. " On February 2017 18, Sheng Hailin went home from a business trip and took photos with the children.
Back to 20 16, two children just reached school age. The two sisters were sent to a boarding school ten kilometers away from home, because the family had to take care of the stroke husband and could not take care of the two children.
"When the children were in the third grade, in order to spend more time with them, they were transferred to the primary school at home. A year later, my husband and wife were too old to eat, so we had to send them back to boarding school. "
Sheng Hailin is a famous child-rearing expert in the eyes of others, but when it comes to educating her daughter, she goes to the bedroom to watch short videos with iPad as soon as the child comes home, which makes her very helpless. The sisters went back to boarding school.
10 years later, the personality differences between twin sisters are getting bigger and bigger, and Sheng Hailin's physical strength is getting worse and worse. She is a little worried about getting along with children in the future. "As children grow older, their self-awareness becomes stronger and stronger, and they accept more and more things from the Internet. Now it is difficult for me to keep up with their situation, as well as adolescence and the like, which makes me dare not think. "
Sheng Hailin once hoped to travel, go dancing, go to the university for the aged and spend his old age safely. Now, she has to worry about food and clothing for her children, attending parent-teacher conferences and so on. Sheng Hailin's greatest wish now is "to live to be an adult, to go to college, to see them get married and have children, and to see the third generation …".
My widowed mother asks Sheng Hailin for advice every year. She always uses her own experience and feelings to answer those widowed mothers, "I really shouldn't have given birth at the beginning", which is also advice for them.
When Sheng Hailin gave birth to twin daughters, she was attacked by many bad comments, saying that she was selfish, gave birth at such an old age, ignored the future of her children, and said that her behavior would increase the social burden. However, Sheng Hailin used her own actions to prove that she did not increase the burden on society. She said that her current accumulation can make these two children live well.