Excuse me, what is the father way and what is the child way?

Fathers are known as "strict family", and the traditional culture and ethical customs in China have accurately, meticulously and reasonably defined the role of fatherly love. "Fathers respect each other and mothers respect each other." A father must maintain his due dignity and self-esteem in order to gain the respect of his family and safeguard and implement the dignity of the person who is the first responsible for family education. "The monarch is not right, the minister goes abroad, the father is not right, and the son runs away from home." Fulfilling the father's responsibility for discipline may even lead to the father and son turning against each other and alienating morality. Strict father's loving mother is the innate role of parents, and strictness, sternness and seriousness are the proper demeanor of a father. However, some fathers have turned the word "strict" into stick education and beating education. I got some enlightenment from Zen education. The purpose of "great drinking" is to stimulate, remind, guide and enlighten, and the purpose is enlightenment and wisdom. A competent father focuses on knowledge, not temper, not superiority. The key is to be superior to others, be the first teacher of children and be their spiritual guide. Parents want their children to succeed at all costs. Indeed, many children have been influenced by their families, inherited their father's footsteps and become the same people as their parents or the people their parents expected, but a considerable number of children have not realized their parents' dreams. As the saying goes, "parents can't protect their children and grandchildren." In the final analysis, family education also has a problem of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, giving children the freedom to choose their own development path and letting them be themselves according to their hobbies and specialties. Everyone has their own interests, there is no need to force them, and the same is true for children.