The lives of several women in "settling down" can be said to show the living methods of all women in the form of textbooks.
Fang was born in a small village, and her mother Pan Guiyu has given birth to three daughters in order to have a son. Fang is the fourth child. When she is born, her mother will throw her into a well and drown her.
Grandpa didn't want to give up and stopped. The three sisters bullied the room like tapestries. Although she studies well, they don't allow her to study because the three daughters should be the same.
Is it funny? My sister won't bully the vulnerable groups at home like my brother.
The fourth child wanted to drown in the well, so he was called "Fang Sijing".
After graduating from junior high school, she can be admitted to the key class of county high school with excellent results, but her family denounced her for not studying, and how much did you spend? Stop asking grandpa for it, or your uncles will come to you.
Fang cried and wanted to go to the study, but she slapped her. Her mother asked her to go to a distant relative's house in the city to look after the children. By the way, she married herself and exchanged money for her younger brother, who was going to college.
Grandpa couldn't stand it, so he took out the last sum of money and told her that if it wasn't enough, she would earn some by herself, so that the girl wouldn't go to high school again.
However, Fang struggled to graduate from college, changed his name to 985, and went to Beijing and Shanghai to make a living alone.
Eat a meal every two days, live in the stairwell, and be as thin as bean sprouts.
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However, the room is like a piece of brocade, not giving in to fate. The first order in life is because the intermediary entrusted by the owner on the 28th floor failed to go upstairs due to power failure.
Fang climbed to the 28th floor and gave the landlord a business card. On the second trip, climb the 28th floor and deliver watermelons. Climb to the 28th floor on the third trip and pay the bill.
It was a sauna day in Shanghai, and the room was like a piece of brocade, trying to make money, living hard and changing the fate of being thrown into the well.
Fang is a tough woman. T-suite has not been sold for more than ten years. She decorated it with her own money. She went to find Gong Beibei. Finally, it was successfully sold, and the original house was sold to Yan's family in the steamed stuffed bun shop.
In order to pay the bill, she can be slapped by Mrs. Naoto Kan, teased by the old couple, squeezed by a taxi, covered in blood, and can tolerate everyone's strange eyes.
She has a goal in mind and knows how to achieve it desperately.
Although Fang was blackmailed by his biological mother, he was robbed of 200 thousand in the first few episodes. However, she is a girl with calculation and frequent bills. That 200 thousand won't crush her, and she must have a way to get rid of it in the future.
Fang never wanted to be attached to a man and never complained about his grievances. He just mustered all his strength and ran for a better life.
I think that one day, when she sees a cheap little house, she will be firm. At that time, she will have her own foundation in Shanghai, and a small house can be changed into a big house in a few years.
Although such a woman comes from a poor family, her ability to turn over against the wind is already in her bones, and she will certainly live a good life.
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Zhu Shanshan, a special existence in this world, never pays the bill, only gets the basic salary. Aunt Xu let her stay for several years.
Aunt Xu said that the shining family is not good either. She has lived in the wardrobe since she was a child and is called "the wardrobe princess". When she came, she said she didn't come to sell a house, but to meet a good man with a house, a car and an account. When she met herself, she immediately resigned and got married.
Glittering people are beautiful, but unfortunately they have no brains and rich people are not so easy to find. Who really wants to marry a "vase", a man is not stupid, not just good-looking can give you a quiet life.
The room distributed leaflets like tapestry, but she hated Tigger's smelly clothes and the sun outside. She ran to the mall with a leaflet, sat in the cinema and had a cold drink, then threw it into the trash can.
Shine, when can you wait until your day?
Aunt Xu said that the biggest advantage of sparkle is optimism, which can drive people around to forget their troubles. So Aunt Xu is willing to keep her as the mascot of this store.
But there is no hope of marriage, and the value of mascots is only a little basic salary. Youth is gone. When will the future this girl wants come?
Zhang Chengcheng is a typical man with a big chest and no brain.
Obviously, she is a good player. She married a husband like Aunt Xu. She has a house in Shanghai and has enough salary and money to buy a second suite, but she just doesn't know how to be self-disciplined.
When doing a fake divorce, Aunt Xu went out neatly, which shows her affection for her.
The intern in the shop cheated at home and was seen in bed by Aunt Xu. Zhang Chengcheng said that this was a passionate mistake, and it was no big deal and should be forgiven.
Perhaps, Zhang Chengcheng thinks that you are penniless and can only endure a little injustice.
But aunt Xu insisted on leaving and said that she would not forgive. Zhang Chengcheng chased the door and begged for forgiveness. It's no use throwing yourself at the door, only to find out that you are pregnant. I think Aunt Xu is more reliable as a father, and Lao Xu will bear all the responsibilities.
Aunt Xu knew that the child was not her own, so she denied it. Zhang Chengcheng went to look for small fresh meat again. "Sister is pregnant," said Xiao Xianrou. "Don't scare me, my parents are going to beat that.
At this point, a good hand was smashed, and I am afraid it will get worse and worse in the future. Such a woman will never be happy all her life.
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Mr. and Mrs. Kan came to Shanghai penniless and began to work hard when they were young. Now middle-aged, Mrs. Naoto Kan is at home full-time, taking care of two old people and four children.
In the absence of Naoto Kan, he runs a company, has an affair, and shows mercy everywhere.
Mrs. Kan takes care of her family too well. My mother-in-law has just finished surgery, and she will take care of her, so that Mr. Kan is not worried at all.
The mother is in charge of four children in the family. Mr. Naoto Kan doesn't know where to go to class, when to get up and when to get off work, and what children want to do every day.
As Aunt Xu said, this woman is so capable that she keeps everything in order and gives her husband a lot of energy to have an affair outside.
Fortunately, Mrs. Kan is not too stupid, and she knows to inform the company's finances that there is a large amount of abnormal expenses to tell her.
However, knowing what to do, she didn't dare to showdown with her husband, so she had to go to the intermediary to get angry. Things still happened, and she didn't save the money she spent.
If it weren't for Naoto Kan's unintentional divorce, perhaps Mrs. Naoto Kan would really be abandoned when she was old, or perhaps she would really take care of the youngest and let Naoto Kan leave without sacrificing her quality of life.
Do you know, a young woman in literature and art, a classical painter and a writer with an open title?
Send an article every minute100000 plus. People are tall and beautiful, and a little melodramatic.
But she thinks it's rare that she and Naoto Kan are soul mates, so she wants a secular marriage. She is going to give Mrs. Kan more money. She has taken four children and two old people with her. Do you know that Naoto Kan Wen Tao and I only enjoy extramarital affairs and never get our hands on daily necessities?
Send a WeChat to Kan every day, hoping that he will come to see himself.
However, Kan Wen Tao just plays for a while and doesn't mind paying the bill, but whether he wants to live forever scares him.
You can give more money, but you must break it clean.
I thought I was ordinary, but in the end I was vulgar. I thought I was pursuing love, and in the end I just really exchanged money.
Such a woman doesn't know. She is wrong from the starting point, and it is also a castle in the air to seek happiness again.
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A woman's path is difficult, but one is always right.
Su Hei once said: "A truly happy woman must have the following conditions: emotional stability, independent thinking ability, rich spiritual world, economic independence without relying on others, and conscious and proper management of her own desires."
This is what a woman should look like. May we all be happier and happier.