But in real life, giving each other trouble is a way for us to maintain our relationship. Many relationships start when you annoy me and I annoy you again.
The difficulty of many problems determines that we can't do it independently and need help from others. In turn, we need to help each other.
It can also be said that it is exchanging social resources. Now in the small-scale peasant economy, one person is responsible for producing clothes and one person is responsible for producing food. In order to live a better life, they have to exchange each other's products.
Then in order to survive better, we have to exchange our values. So not disturbing others is not a virtue. After all, it is too much to raise this kind of thing to the height of virtue.
Even though I hate being disturbed by others, many times we have to disturb others, so we must accept others to disturb ourselves.