Talk about choosing a place to travel. Which one do you recommend?

I like the Oriental Pearl of Shanghai, the food and beauty of Nanjing Pedestrian Street in Shanghai, the vendors and decorations of Nanjing Pedestrian Street, the prosperity and beauty of Shanghai, and the Huangpu River in Shanghai, but I don't like the pace of life in Shanghai, nor do I like the pace of life in Beijing. I chose Shanghai because I have feelings for it.