1. Seating mode. Please bring the guests to the table first. Please sit down next to the elderly guests in turn and enter from the left side of the chair when you sit down. Don't move chopsticks after you sit down. Don't make any noise. Don't get up and walk around. If you have anything to say hello to your host.
Second, when eating, invite guests first. Keep moving chopsticks. Eat less food every time. Eat less food far away from you. Don't make any noise when eating. Don't make any noise when you drink soup. Take a sip with a spoon. It is not advisable to drink a bowl to your mouth. Drink the soup when it is too hot or too cold. Don't drink while blowing. Some people like to chew food when eating, especially hard-chewed food.
Third: Don't burp and make other noises when eating. If there are involuntary noises such as sneezing and bowel sounds, say "I'm sorry". Sorry; Please let the original cool. To apologize.
Fourth; If you want to help guests or elders, you'd better use public chopsticks. You can also give them dishes that are far away from your guests or elders. According to our Chinese custom, dishes are served one by one. If there are leaders, old people and guests at the same table, whenever a new dish is served, please ask them to move chopsticks first, or take turns asking them to move chopsticks first to show their attention.
Fifth: when eating fish heads, fishbones, bones, etc. Don't spit it out or throw it on the ground. Slowly take them to your plate by hand, or put them next to your dining table, or put them on paper prepared in advance.
Sixth, we should take time out to talk with people around us in time to reconcile the atmosphere. Don't eat naked, ignore others, don't wolf down a big meal, and don't drink too much.
Seventh: You'd better not pick your teeth at the dinner table. If you want to pick your teeth, cover your mouth with a napkin or hand.
Eighth: Make clear the main task of this meal. We should be clear about whether to focus on business, contact feelings or eat. If we are in the front, we should pay attention when arranging seats. We should put the main negotiators' seats close to each other, so as to facilitate conversation or channel emotions. If we fall behind, we just need to pay attention to common sense and etiquette and concentrate on appreciating dishes.
Ninth: When you finally leave the table, you must thank the host or invite him to your home in return.
China people are helped by etiquette, and food is the most important thing for the people. How can there be no rules for eating? Although it is three meals a day, it is better to know than not to know!
1。 Guests should be informed in advance and seated at 6: 00. You didn't call the guests until 5: 50, old man, right?
2。 The host family can't be late; Guests should be 5- 10 minutes late. This is a very considerate guest. Attach importance to it, and the natural host and guests are very happy.
3。 If you sit on the round table, it is the main seat facing the door, or the back wall and counter; More elegant restaurants will be distinguished by napkins. You can't just sit at the top of your napkin unless you plan to treat: D
4。 The host's right hand side is the host and guest, and the left hand side is the second most important guest; * The door is facing the host. Naturally, it is the guest who runs errands to say hello.
5。 A guest can't directly give directions to the ordering staff, but wait for the host's family to order; If the guest does have serious taboos or hobbies, tell the host gently, and the host will naturally make a decision for him to meet the requirements of the guest.
6。 The host family does not order or order dishes that need to be grasped or taken by hand, such as crabs, lobster legs, ribs and so on. There is no way to serve three such dishes at a meal. What manners can be said!
7。 Don't force or oppose others to drink a little, no table can be served without wine!
8。 Serve drinks! Foreigners like to brag about their cooking, while China people don't like to brag about their food. The host carefully observed the cold dishes served, and immediately raised his glass after there was a drink in each cup. Welcome to start. . . For example, turn the plate or signal the host and guests on the right to move the first chopsticks. Don't delay the host and guest for too long, everyone is hungry, just waiting for you to eat! Don't forget to praise the food you eat.
9。 After each dish is served, although the waiter and host will still turn to the host and guest, it is not necessary to be too formal. If no one turns the disc in front of me, I'll try it with small chopsticks first!
10。 The host family should always turn discs to take care of most of the guests; Accompanying guests is a supplementary greeting service; If the guests can eat the whole meal without touching the dishes, then both the host and the guests will be happy again.
1 1。 If there is no waiter to divide the dishes or chopsticks spoons, look at them first. Don't pick and choose with chopsticks or even stir them on the plate! Not everyone doesn't mind the saliva on your chopsticks like lovers! I usually look at the part closest to me. 12. It's best to let the food on chopsticks transition in your own dish and then send it to your mouth. It can make eating seem less urgent.
13。 When chewing food in your mouth, it is important to remember that your lips should be tightly closed to avoid talking, falling objects, overflowing juice and making unpleasant sounds.
14。 You should keep your back straight and try to sit in a chair instead of * when eating or before eating. When eating, your hands are basically above the table.
15。 A host with a good appetite and a guest who is losing weight are not suitable for such a dinner party.
There are many manners that should be paid attention to at the dinner table, which are often ignored.
(1) Sit and leave.
1. Wait for the old man to sit down.
If there is a lady at the table, you should wait until the lady is seated. If the lady's seat is next door, someone should page her.
After dinner, other guests can leave only after the hostess and the host leave.
4. Sit up straight and keep a proper distance from the dining table.
When eating in a restaurant, the waiter should take you to the table.
6. When leaving the seat, help the old man or woman in the next seat to drag the seat.
(B) the use of incense towels
1, napkins are mainly used to prevent clothes from getting dirty, and also to wipe oil stains on your mouth and hands.
You must wait until everyone is seated before you can use the napkin.
3. After the napkin is spread out, put it on the thigh at the top of the knee. Don't wear a belt or hang it on the collar of a suit.
Never wipe the tableware with napkin.
(3) the general etiquette at the table
1. Sit up straight, put your feet under the seat, and don't straighten up at will. Don't lean your elbow on the edge of the table, and don't put your hand on the back of the seat next to you.
2. When eating, be gentle, calm and not impatient.
3. At the dinner table, you should not only care about yourself, but also care about others, especially the female guests on both sides.
If there is food in your mouth, you should avoid talking.
5. Don't put your own tableware in the public plate to get food.
6, be sure to stutter, don't big mouth, food is the last to swallow, can't plug the entrance.
7. When picking vegetables and scooping soup, use public chopsticks and spoons.
8, eat imported things, can not spit it out, such as hot food, you can drink water or juice to shower.
9. When the food is delivered to the entrance, the elbows should be tilted inward, instead of being placed straight at the sides to touch the neighbors.
10. When you hold a knife and fork or others chew food, you should avoid talking or toasting.
1 1, delicious is a dish, not a dish. Take rice with you, and don't send it to your mouth in a hurry, otherwise the soup will drip on the tablecloth, which is extremely indecent.
12, never pull out your teeth with your fingers, use a toothpick and cover it with your hand or handkerchief.
13. Avoid coughing, sneezing and vomiting at the dinner table. If you can't help it, you should say "I'm sorry"
14, drink casually, toast politely, and don't persuade, guess or shout.
15. If the tableware falls, please ask the waiter to pick it up.
16. In case of an accident, you accidentally spill wine, water and soup on someone else's clothes, just apologize, and you don't have to make amends in a hurry, but make the other person embarrassed.
17. If you want to take the condiments placed in front of other guests at the same table, ask the guests next to you to pass them to you. You shouldn't reach out and drive for them.
18, if the host cooks himself, don't forget to thank the host.
19. If you eat something unclean or smelly, don't swallow it. You should gently take out the imported food with your thumb and forefinger and put it on the plate. Don't make a fuss if you find bugs and gravel in the unfinished dishes. When the waiter comes near, tell him to change it softly.
20. After eating, the tableware must be placed neatly and not misplaced. Napkins should also be folded and put on the table.
2 1. Smoking is not allowed in the process of staple food. If you want to smoke, you must ask your neighbors' permission first.
22, eating in a restaurant, you can't grab the bill, push and pull the payment, it is indecent. If you are a guest, you can't rush to pay the bill. You shouldn't pay the bill for your friend without his consent.
23. Eat at the same speed as the host and hostess, neither too fast nor too slow.
24. Don't talk about sadness at the dinner table, or it will spoil the happy atmosphere.