First, marry a man who doesn't marry Phoenix. Meng Xiao (a pseudonym) and her husband have been in love for many years, and they finally got together. Meng Xiao thought he married love, but he didn't expect to lose it in the end, and he was convinced of it.
Husband is rural and lives by farming; Meng Xiao is a city dweller, and both his parents have retirement wages. It is wrong for two people to be strangers, but Meng Xiao thinks that love can overcome everything. Unexpectedly, after marrying her husband, Meng Xiao began to regret it. Not long after the marriage, the husband took his parents to live together and said that he would take them to live a good life and not let them suffer in their hometown.
The money earned by the husband is either given to parents or to brothers and sisters at home. Meng Xiao pays for electricity, water, food and fruit at home. In addition to these in-laws, Meng Xiao asked her husband to send her in-laws home for many times, but her husband wouldn't listen and coaxed Meng Xiao to let Meng Xiao accept them as a way of showing filial piety to the elderly.
Later, my mother-in-law found out the advanced stage of liver cancer, and her husband was dumbfounded, but she decided to save her mother-in-law. He asked Meng Xiao if she had any money, and asked Meng Xiao if her parents-in-law Meng Xiao had any money. Meng Xiao didn't agree. In order to save his mother, her husband forced Meng Xiao to ask his parents for money. Meng Xiao said that her parents had enough money to buy a house, but no money. Her husband even said that in order to save my mother, she would sell the house.
Meng Xiaofei was often angry and they quarreled. The husband said directly to Meng Xiao, "My mother is ill, and my father-in-law refuses to sell the house to help me. Let's divorce! " Hearing this little dream calmed down a lot and directly agreed to divorce.
Second, before getting married, we must keep our eyes open, and dream of being happy for a lifetime by marrying love, but she doesn't know that marriage is not just love, but also daily necessities, parents-in-law, children, three views and various living habits.
Meng Xiaomeng wants to spend the rest of his life happily with her husband, but Meng Xiao's husband wants to help his parents, brothers and sisters and make the whole family live a well-off life. All roads lead to the same goal, and this marriage ended in time, saving Meng Xiao and Meng Xiao's family.
Women must polish their eyes before getting married, and don't think that love is full of water. Love cannot fill their stomachs. Many problems can't be solved by love. Many problems need money and the same three views.
Marrying Phoenix Man is equivalent to being the savior of Phoenix Man's family. You have to satisfy the desire of the Phoenix family. If parents want to build a house, you can get the money. If parents want to live in the city, you have to pay for the house. You have to support your brother-in-law to go to college; Your sister-in-law gets married and you get dowry money; Get a bride price, etc when you get married. In short, if the relatives of Phoenix Man are in trouble, you should lend a helping hand.
Third, Phoenix Man should introspect. Many Phoenix men feel that they are the hope of their families and the pride of their villages. They are particularly conceited. If they feel rich, they must help their parents and their brothers and sisters.
You can help if you have money. You can help if you have no money. You don't have any money at home, so let your wife pay all the expenses, and then you are swollen and fat at a relative's house.
If parents are sick, the family has money to treat them. If you can't treat them, don't force it. Don't kidnap your wife with morality, and kidnap your parents-in-law with morality.
It's really boring Your poverty is not the reason, nor is your weakness.