Manage your own mentality.
When the husband explicitly asks for a divorce, if the wife doesn't want to leave, or even loves her husband deeply, then _ she will feel that the sky is falling for an instant. Negative emotions such as sadness, anger, loss and anxiety will flood into the wife's heart. At this time, the wife must remember not to vent this emotion on her husband. Once you can't control yourself crying and making trouble, the situation will really be lost. Control your mind until your husband leaves. And as far as possible according to the physical and mental health methods to vent, such as fitness exercise, singing, climbing, shouting and so on. After venting, your mind will calm down, and then you will think further about how to solve it.
There is no need to disclose information for the time being.
The lower the people who know this matter, the higher. On the one hand, if the wife can't bear such a severe blow, it is understandable to inform relatives and friends to find relief and apply; On the other hand, the wife should also pay attention to control the situation, don't make a mountain out of a molehill, or even let everyone know. When you tell this information to friends and relatives, you don't have to complain as much as possible, and you don't have to pass all the key points to franchisees without reservation, but the simpler the better. For example, a wife can say, "My husband is divorced, but I don't want to leave because I still love him." no need to say any more
The bigger the key point, the more people you know, and there will be a kind of work pressure of public opinion. Relatives and friends will indignantly advise you not to recover and divorce immediately; If it reaches my husband's ears, he will have a lot of face, feeling that his wife will disregard his face and say that he is not very good everywhere, and then he will be more determined to divorce. In that case, it is necessary to put the cart before the horse if you want to maintain your marriage with your wife. The bigger the incident, the harder it is to retain it. The reserved things should be handled by the husband and wife department behind closed doors.
Give my husband some indoor space, considering
The wife doesn't have to press her husband step by step, just take a step back and give him some indoor space. Considering that sometimes different roads lead to different goals, he will gradually miss a good marriage and a good wife, and then swing the idea of divorce. It's no use trying to persuade everyone. You can only rely on your husband to find a way. After all, divorce is a matter of harming others and benefiting themselves. Divorce will definitely hurt your vitality, and my husband actually doesn't want a divorce. The wife naturally doesn't have to give too much indoor space, so she just gives in to her husband. By doing that, the husband felt that his wife didn't care about himself, which strengthened his determination to divorce.
Actively communicate with her husband.
If the husband refuses to communicate, the wife must try to create opportunities for communication. Once your husband mentions divorce, the atmosphere between you will become more and more embarrassing and anxious. At this moment, if both sides do not actively create opportunities for communication and close their hearts, then _ probably until the moment of divorce, there will be no chance to open their hearts and talk.
A wife should actively communicate with her husband to get out of trouble. For example, you can recall the past with your husband, recall a lot of happiness you have experienced before, create a relaxed communication atmosphere, and stimulate your husband's positive attitude. What are the chances of a relaxed and interesting conversation and a remarriage without leaving home? Let your husband appreciate you again and make him feel reluctant to give up on you. One communication, two communication? After a series of communication, I may be able to reconcile my husband and seriously consider whether to divorce again.