1. Active communication: try to actively communicate with the married person and share their hobbies, life experiences, family background and other information so as to get to know each other better. You can find opportunities to chat in your daily life, or arrange some time to participate in some activities to increase mutual understanding.
2.*** Plan activities together: discuss and plan some activities together, such as traveling, attending interest classes and participating in social activities. These activities can help you build closer ties with your married partner and increase mutual understanding and trust.
3. Seek marriage counseling: If you find it difficult to communicate and understand with your partner, you can seek the help of a professional marriage counselor. They can provide communication and problem-solving skills and suggestions to help you build a healthier and more stable relationship with your marriage partner.
4. Respect each other: Make sure there is enough respect and trust between you and the person you are married to before establishing a closer relationship. Respecting each other's personal space and independence, as well as their opinions and feelings, will help reduce conflicts and misunderstandings and establish a healthier relationship.
It should be noted that it takes time and effort to establish a healthy relationship. Don't expect immediate changes, but continue to work hard and pay attention to your's relations in order to establish closer ties and understanding.