Is the emotional counselor useful? Easily resolve male cold violence

My name is Xiao Si. I'm an emotional counselor. I am a little girl born and raised in Shandong Province. I have a difficult choice in my heart, and I have to grit my teeth and stick to it. It rarely gives people a charming feeling, and it always makes people feel soft inside.

Graduated from a bachelor's degree, and now I am the accounting supervisor of an unpopular company. I will be 30 years old in five and a half months. Although it has been 2 1 century, my concept is still relatively traditional. I think you should do something at any age.

At school, I study hard and sign up for work. I am also serious and responsible, and I am afraid of being a little slack. It is also the life of the matchmaker to marry and have children. I'm never afraid to cross the line with my parents' permission.

Because we get along with accountants, and our company probably has 10 accountants. Due to the large number of elite teams, it is inevitable that there will be survival of the fittest, so I am particularly cautious about the mistakes in my work and I am diligent in making myself better and better.

Usually, there is no other social media except work, home and shopping malls. Mostly a single daily life. Because emotional counselors have touched other passers-by, it is inevitable to send the design style at work to daily life, thinking that everything is planned as a whole and must be "implemented" as planned.

Pen pals often say that my shortcomings are serious and meticulous, but they are not pleasing at all. I don't care about their accusations. I think the man who loves me will like all my looks. I just want to stick to it and be myself. But I don't care what happened afterwards. I got a loud slap in the face.

When I came home last month, my parents gave me a "death order" to win my own life event before my 30th birthday. I have no choice but to ask my friends to introduce my boyfriend in detail to help me.

My friend Song introduced her distant cousin Jason Chung to me in detail. He is a doctor and looks tall and straight. I guess he looks like 185. Because I'm not very tall (I haven't reached 160), I've always wanted to find a boyfriend who is the cutest in height and wants me to feel a sense of belonging.

After meeting, I had a good impression on him, but I was a little uncertain about his figure. I also deal with boring forms every day, and I have never been in love before.

For the first time, I have ways and means to learn Chinese, so I still look for it in various emotional WeChat official accounts, books and radio stations.

I read in the book: "If you want the other person to be interested in you, you need to understand that you should follow the current, consider his personal heroism, take care of his daily life, be moderate, be patient, and let him be more protective and active when necessary."

I just started "attacking" him as an emotional counselor. He likes classical music, so I invited him to the concert. He likes drinking coffee, and I bought the most convenient and best mocha pot. If you have any problems in your life, ask him for help and seek relief when you are sick.

Naturally, he will also give me some gifts, such as pens and books related to accounting. He will also tell me what my personal hobbies and favorite theme activities are. It was not until he told me that I felt that he didn't realize that I really didn't have any personal hobbies.

I remembered that the book mentioned that I would "obey" his emotions, so I felt extreme and said to him, "I still love you." If you like it, I'll try to accept it. "

He didn't say anything at that time, and then he became more and more abnormal. Because I can't tell which stage it is, I still follow his hobby. Although he is as active as before, he will meet on time every time he is invited and try his best to help me every time he asks for help. He will also deliver medicine to my door in the middle of the night and take care of me all night.

But _ for a long time, his mentality became more and more perfunctory. Every time I tell him something, it's not "well, it's fine" or "you can use oil", but "make up your mind and want to hear it from you", which makes me feel at a loss. Usually, if he wants to give up, there is another thing that is particularly good.

Just after three months, I'm on tenterhooks. I want to give up. I think he's fine, but sometimes he's cold. I really don't know what to do.

I have to ask my sister for help. She told me, "If you don't ask me right away, it's not a problem to hang up." . And I think it's very likely that he has feelings for you, too, and loves you dearly, or he has been paying attention to you. "

There is no doubt that I have a very good girlfriend. I suddenly gained confidence and got up the courage to send them a mobile phone WeChat: "Everyone has known each other for so many years. I think the two of us are quite suitable. When do you think our relationship will go further? "