What should I do if I know that my parents' educational methods are wrong but I still have to be influenced by them?
Parents should learn to be good policemen and bad policemen. Parents must be a good policeman and a bad policeman in educating their children. Of course, this distinction between good people and bad people is only relative, but it is actually good for children. When the child has a problem, both parents must agree. One party can make a detailed analysis of the child's problems, make suggestions and criticisms, and be strict. You can't let your child feel that his problem is irrelevant and shock him from the heart. This is the so-called white face. The other party should supplement it appropriately, but the attitude and tone should be gentle, so that the child feels that although there is a problem, one parent still understands himself.