We know that time is a one-way street, things happen when they happen, and nothing can be redeemed.
There is no choice but to accept.
No matter how you complain or how unwilling you are, it's all in vain.
We are always afraid of disasters, but when disasters happen, we understand.
As long as you don't die, you have to suffer.
Bitter, people will get used to it.
We are much stronger than we thought.
One day, when we looked back, we found that we gritted our teeth and walked a long way.
There are many such examples. Has anyone done anything against other people's accusations? In fact, this is a very common thing. In the workplace, interpersonal relationships, family, such things are all pulled out in a laundry list, right?
But later, most of them didn't just come over. The most influential conclusion I have ever experienced is-boy, you are tough enough!
The future hasn't arrived yet, so don't worry too much and don't think too much.
There is an alarmist story in ancient China.
He is always worried that the sky will fall and it will be difficult to live all day.
The future is always unpredictable. We are not gods, so it is impossible to predict the future.
The only thing we can grasp is the present.
Countless moments connect into a line, leading to a seemingly distant future.
Now, bit by bit, we will build a better future.
Do not welcome the future, embrace the present, start from the foot, start from this moment.
In fact, 80% of what you are worried about will not happen in the near future. Of course, "the sky will fall", for example, you will always encounter situations that you don't want to happen. That's true, but what's the use of worrying? Let's do something within our power.
It wasn't complicated at the time. In the face of the only moment that can be grasped, the brain must stay awake.
Don't be disturbed by meaningless thoughts, and don't be trapped by inner distractions.
Someone once asked the Zen master Mazu how to practice. The Zen master Mazu replied: Eat when you are hungry and sleep when you are sleepy.
This person is very strange, saying that others do the same. Do they study as hard as you?
Mazu replied, no, they think about sleeping when they eat, and they think about eating when they sleep, but I, eating is eating, and sleeping is sleeping, so it's different.
Many times, we feel anxious because there are too many things in our minds at the same time.
Focusing on the present and doing the things at hand well is a person's greatest practice.
A few days ago, I went to get a haircut. The barber talked about three years of natural disasters and said that several relatives of his grandparents had starved to death. I said, what do you think of these? He said he was angry and nobody cared about him at that time. I said you hurt yourself once if you think about it. They are hungry. It's pathetic. It's sad that you torture yourself like this ... can they be free?
In the Four Seasons from Fan, I said: In the past, for example, I died yesterday. The past has become history and cannot be changed.
The past is the past, and it's no use regretting.
Regret in your heart can only disturb the present and miss the future.
In the future, we will meet new people and new things.
God won't be so unfair forever. Everything will be fine.
Zeng Guofan, a 20-year-old student, studied at the Down's Ancestral Hall in Hengyang and studied under Wang Juean. A year later, he transferred to Lianbin College in Xiangxiang. Change the number and wash it.
Clean up your life, clean up the old and create the new. Give up the past, make a clean break with the past, and you can rush to a new life.
"Things to meet, the future does not meet. At that time, it was not mixed, neither love nor love. " It's the old man's teaching!
Some readers left a message in the background saying that they wanted to go to Lhasa to pray for Buddha and Bodhisattva because of the unemployment caused by the epidemic.
But now all the monasteries in Lhasa are still closed and can't get in.
I used to stay in Lhasa for several years, and I know some ancient shuras in temples (called by monks). Although there is no ceremony, sacrifices can still be made in front of some famous and effective ancient Buddha statues.
My teacher in Perth once told me that if the other person really wants to get his own reward, he needs to meet one of the following three relationships: first, the relationship between relatives and friends, such as the relationship between father and son; The second is legal relationship, such as mentoring relationship; Third, the relationship between property and wealth, such as donors and monks.
It has been appreciated by many readers and friends and received a lot of support and help, so I think there is a "financial relationship" between them.
Just now, I specifically asked my teacher of drepung monastery Ancient Temple, and the teacher said that supporting such people with connections would really help them. )
I want to say a little more here. If you want to help someone, you need to establish some kind of relationship with him. If you are just a stranger in the newspaper, paying him to cross over or pray for him, several of my teachers say that it is basically only beneficial to you. )
So stop praying for strangers in the future? No, at least it can increase your kindness. )
In this case, I asked my friends in Lhasa to help me contact Guxiula of Jokhang Temple, and presented a Buddhist dress to the most famous Juewo Buddha on the eighth day of the third month of the Tibetan calendar (that is, yesterday), and presented some fruits before going to the famous mother-in-law school to pray for my friends who have difficulties in work recently.
Friends in need, please repay each other privately, because we have established a relationship with each other and should be able to get benefits.
May all living beings in the epidemic be free from hunger and thirst, have something to do, have a place to live and be carefree.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to serve. Thank you for your charity! Thank you and I * * * enjoy a wonderful quality of life, and good luck!
Grateful return!