It is very important to practice eloquence in interview skills. Eloquence is also an indispensable interview skill in life. Good communication skills are indispensable for interpersonal communication. If you want to practice eloquence well, you must have skills. Let's talk about interview skills first and practice eloquence.
It is very important to practice eloquence in interview skills. 1 I'll never forget the interview for a job counselor the year before last: a big boy was sitting across the interviewer's desk, shaking all over with materials in his hand, so nervous that he couldn't speak for a long time. People asked him if he had a fever, and he replied "no". Everyone reminded him not to be nervous, and he stammered out his story. The resume shows that the candidate is 35 years old, with a master's degree, and has worked as a middle school teacher after graduating from college 10 years. I can't imagine how he educated his students as a teacher in this 10 year.
But then again, this phenomenon is not surprising at all. I clearly remember that Beijing Youth Daily reported on the front page that there was a great demand for public speaking training. The day after the newspaper was published, 70% of the calls received by the Beijing Youth Daily news hotline were about the contact number or address of the "public speaking" training class. 85% of the trainees in the training course have bachelor's degrees, and each class also has one or two master's students and doctoral students, the youngest is 19 years old and the oldest is 73 years old. Some students are too shy to speak in front of others; Some students don't know how to speak, and they often offend people. Some parents hope that this training course can make introverted children change their personalities.
Looking back at the classmates around, including the author himself, there are many people who can't speak. Although we don't need the eloquence of diplomats, at the critical moment, we lost many opportunities in vain, so that we couldn't forgive ourselves. Traditional education in China has not paid much attention to cultivating people's oral expression ability. A glib talker who can make a speech in public is likely to be regarded as flashy rhetoric. However, a person who is not good at words and can't praise and praise himself can easily be regarded as a down-to-earth, simple and diligent person. As the saying goes, "Silence is golden", but in the current social work and living environment, silence will lose many opportunities.
This is an era in which more and more attention is paid to "speaking": when looking for a job, you need to make a presentation during the interview, especially the scenario simulation tests such as group discussion and impromptu speech, and the examiner is examining your language expression ability; After work, candidates need to give speeches, national defense students need to give orders when they lead troops to the army, normal students need to speak all the time to be good teachers and have good classes, salesmen need to speak like tongues ... teachers, lawyers, hosts, actors and broadcasters ... There are not a few professionals who rely on "speaking" and lip service.
Even if you don't engage in the above business and don't associate with people in the future, you should learn to speak and express yourself correctly and appropriately. A boring classical Chinese book, The Analects of Confucius, made Yu Dan very happy and attracted so many people, just like listening to a story told by Dan Tianfang. In modern society, a person's development and success are more and more related to his "speaking" ability. As an important part of quality ability, people's language expression ability has received unprecedented attention.
In daily life, some students never dare to speak in front of the whole class. They blush and are timid as soon as they speak. They always listen more and talk less. When looking for a job, some students are nervous in the interview and their hearts beat faster. They can't even make a phone call, let alone know how to apply for a job by phone. There is no denying that extroverts are always more approachable than introverts, especially in interviews, they should be better at expressing themselves. However, there is no good or bad personality. No one is born an orator. Language, as an art, can be exercised through learning, and there are certain skills to be mastered in speaking.
On June 28th, 2004, 165438+ Beijing Youth Daily, Jinghua Times and other media reported on the open selection of deputy bureau-level leading cadres in Beijing in 2004, and made their first speeches. Different from the previous five "open selection", the content of this speech has joined the comprehensive quality interview of candidates, which has aroused social concern. According to the organizer, the focus of this practice is to examine candidates' logical thinking ability, language expression ability, personality charm and work ideas.
From this report, we can see that speaking ability is increasingly becoming a means for employers to examine their personal ability. Although we may not be able to speak in our future work, a person with the ability to speak will indeed be better than others in terms of language expression, logical thinking and appeal.
Being able to speak will really make a person more confident, calm, approachable and persuasive, and it will be easier and more effective to communicate in public and talk in private. Being able to talk can really make a person show excellent qualities. "If you want to be a talent, you should practice your eloquence first" has become a popular slogan for many people in the workplace.
Overcoming nervous stage fright, improving psychological quality and health level, knowing how to tap the potential of oneself, improving the ability of speaking, and having a good eloquence in an extremely competitive society may mean a chance of success.
Students, for your future, charge your eloquence!
It is very important to practice eloquence in interview skills. 2 1. Tone skill training.
Tone refers to the rise and fall of sound in a sentence. With the ups and downs of sentences, the language has a beautiful tone, cadence, full of musical beauty, and can express different tones and thoughts and feelings in more detail, so that the audience can better understand and recall the works.
When dealing with sentence patterns, each sentence should be related to the context to see what language environment it is said and what the speaker's intention is. Through analysis and experience, we can produce a true and reliable intonation, not just punctuation.
Interview skills: how to improve your eloquence skills
2. The golden pyramid principle
Exercise logical thinking and structured expression, observe other people's speaking skills and ways, and then seize the opportunity to express and practice.
3. Humor skills training
Humor refers to the technique of criticizing and revealing absurd and unreasonable phenomena in real life by means of innuendo, satire, exaggeration and pun in a relaxed and humorous way. Humor is characterized by harmony, which is a kind of irony with a smile. It can make people laugh, make people laugh, and achieve their goals in a light way.
Humor, as an art of laughter, is a vivid reflection of social life, the crystallization of human wisdom and the embodiment of subjective optimism. A good speaker must be a humorous person. In modern society, humor has become a necessity in people's life and work. Humorous words not only make the topic lively and interesting, but also make people laugh. With the unity of philosophy and interest, they are refreshing, meaningful and intriguing, effectively shortening the distance between speakers. Humor can resolve contradictions and make interpersonal relationships more harmonious.
Numerous facts have proved that people like people who talk humorously, but they hate people who talk dry, boring, monotonous and always lecture others with a straight face. Many research data of psychology show that people like people who have a sense of humor in communication. Managers of 329 large companies in the United States participated in a survey on humor, and the results showed that 97% people thought that sense of humor was of great value in enterprise management. 60% people think that humor can determine the success of a person's career.
Interview skills: how to improve your eloquence skills
Therefore, verbal humor is a life attitude and an indispensable quality for eloquence to express the theme.