Let's put it this way: if you take a career as a lifelong career, you will be very tired; You will do it as a profitable business, and you will not be too tired.
No matter what kind of occupation, you need to study, accumulate, practice, explore and study again ... a series of mental and physical activities, some people will feel very full and fulfilled, and some people will feel tired of working overtime.
If you don't have profound psychological knowledge, good eloquence, meticulous and patient empathy and follow-up service as a psychological counselor, patients won't believe you. ...
In short, nothing is difficult in the world, nothing is impossible to a willing mind! It takes a lot to be a responsible person.
There are only a handful, there is nothing tiring about work, but it doesn't matter if you like it!
Psychological counselors will receive some negative information and feelings in their work. If they accept it for a long time, it is actually a great psychological challenge, so they need to mediate themselves often! The most difficult thing is probably to write a report after consultation, but also to recall the situation at that time and sort out whether you have missed it!
People are particularly complicated, and there are always some incomprehensible things in the consultation process. On the other hand, there are always some uncertain factors that will interfere with the consultation work! Fortunately, the consultation process of the consultant is also a process of self-improvement. The consultant is a technology that is never too old to learn, and the update is particularly fast! Fortunately, I have my own stable supervisor. Sometimes I can't see clearly what the visitor's problem is, but he can! Sometimes I feel sorry for my supervisor. My negative emotions are poured on others like bitter water, and I have to help myself solve the helpless case!
Studying psychology always gives people a paranoid feeling. Many counselors have accumulated too much information that is not conducive to their physical and mental health in their work. They are always thinking about human nature, subconscious and analyzing cases in the minds of psychological counselors! Quietly and attentively listen to others pour out all kinds of painful experiences and complaints in life and work. To tell the truth, when the work intensity is too great, I am very tired, exhausted physically and mentally, plus thousands of words of consultation report, in cerebral palsy. ...
Fortunately, there are online and telephone counseling now. Although I will be in a state of excitement and tension before each consultation, many people's comments and comments are really hurtful!
I remember when I enrolled in a class to study psychological counseling, the teacher said that if psychological counselors do it as an interest, you will get more, but you can't make money by this technology! Many professional psychological counselors will choose to change careers when they encounter job burnout. Fortunately, many majors need this psychology now!
Author: emotional fruit
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Will it be very tiring to be a psychological counselor?
Although different industries have different work intensities and risks, any industry is the same. No fatigue, only boredom. If the consultation effect is good and fruitful, it is nothing to be tired, but if the effect is not good or even ineffective, visitors will feel tired and annoyed, and even have the idea of not doing it. Facts have also proved that many psychological counselors have left.
Whether you are tired or not depends on your own feelings. If you start to work harder, learn the pathogenesis of mental illness, learn the skills of counseling, and practice these skills skillfully, you can quickly gain the trust of the visitors during the consultation, so that the visitors can quickly feel that you can help him, and the consultation will go on and achieve the expected results. If you have a sense of accomplishment, you won't feel tired.
Psychological problems, mental disorders and mental illness are very regular. Once you master the rules, you will be familiar with them, just like an old teacher. Although everyone's experience is different, the principle is the same, so you won't feel tired. Not feeling tired doesn't mean perfunctory and irresponsible. You should also be highly responsible for visitors, so that visitors feel that you know him, are responsible for him, are trustworthy, and the consultation effect will be better.
First of all, you should have this ability, and then no matter what work is hard and easy, unless you eat to death, haha
This is also very professional. People who are suitable for this professional industry will naturally not feel too tired.
If your mental health level is not good, being a psychological counselor may be risky, both for visitors and for yourself. In this case, you must first do a good job of self-growth.
In addition, psychological counselor is also a high-risk occupation, which requires psychological preparation.
At the same time, when accepting cases, there must be a supervisor or peer supervision.
With curiosity and belief that visitors are experts in his life, constant self-growth can make him not tired.
No, we can't be influenced by the environment.
Using personal strength will be very tiring, but using the power of knowledge will not be very tiring. While solving problems for others, you can gain more knowledge and energy through your own work. In the words of knowledge, no one will be fine. It is knowledge, not people, that matters. Give others the correct knowledge of doing things, and the thinking of doing things will change, and the result will naturally change. Knowledge is to solve problems from the root.
Say tired or not, normal mind is not tired.
First, "psychological counselor" is a profession, which is not essentially different from 360 lines.
Second, if a person can't find happiness and a sense of accomplishment in his "career", he will be physically and mentally exhausted and exhausted; If you find happiness and a sense of accomplishment in your career, your career becomes a game. "Game" is also tired, but you can eat well and sleep well. The next day, you are full of energy and never tired.
Third, a qualified "psychological counselor" should understand that the essence of "psychological counselor" is "guidance" and the output is "knowledge" and "wisdom", so it will not be "exhausted"; The harvest is a sense of accomplishment and happiness.
Fourthly, if a counselor regards himself as a "garbage basket" and doesn't know the professional nature of a "counselor", it will produce a "psychological burden" and then stimulate psychological contradictions, which is also a matter of personal ability. This will lead to "self-mistake" and "misunderstanding".