No, because they have no necessary characteristics.
Five characteristics of people who come to the meeting
I received many inquiries and answered many questions from netizens. The most common problem is the trouble of dealing with people.
Mainly, many of our friends' parents are honest people like mine.
Although honest people are kind, many honest people will not come to work.
As honest parents, our education in dealing with people is far from enough.
Today, I've been wandering the Jianghu for so many years, and I've observed some people who will come to the meeting, so I'll give you a summary.
There are five points, very simple.
1
People who come here will especially control their emotions.
I was deeply impressed by two pieces of news recently. Two months ago, a young man in Taiyuan took a taxi. He hit the driver because he thought his Mandarin was not good.
Two days ago, there was similar news. A man in Zhangjiakou drank some wine and met an old man in his 70s when crossing the street. He hit the old man.
I watched the news, the photos of these two people, their looks and temperament, that is, the word "diaosi", and their work was not so good.
The worse the ability, the worse the stink. People with bad temper are generally not smart.
Smart people know that controlling emotions has too many benefits.
First, don't make trouble for yourself, and don't make trouble for yourself.
Secondly, leaving a stable and reliable image for others is only good for your own development.
2
People who will come,
In particular, I will control my desire to express myself.
You should have heard that noble people are late, and reliable people generally don't talk easily.
I remember reading an article many years ago that there was a party where two men were sitting and chatting with two girls, one of whom was particularly beautiful. One of them is talkative and talkative.
After the party, someone asked the girls, which boy do you feel good about?
She said that she didn't talk much.
If you are not good at expressing, you will lose, but if you over-express, you will lose more.
Be brave to express yourself in your speech and report your work.
Pay attention to control your desire for expression and discretion in social occasions and workplaces.
three
People who will come,
I can control my desire to show off.
Han Xin once said: "Wealth does not return to hometown, just like walking at night."
There is desire in human nature, and we especially need to be recognized by others.
In TV movies and novels, our favorite scenes are those who look down on the hero at first, and then hit him in the face, look down on him and bully him in the apprentice.
Every time I see this kind of bridge, I feel particularly cool.
The desire to show off comes from being looked down upon and ignored before, and we need to be recognized.
However, this desire in human nature always has two sides. On the one hand, it will make you feel good, on the other hand, it will also have some negative effects.
Showing off is unpleasant.
People who come to the meeting know how to make others comfortable, do not cause jealousy and disgust, and never show off such things that are easy to offend people.
four
People who will come,
Quick empathy, not affected by emotions
Everyone understands empathy, but it is actually very difficult to operate.
The difficulty is that we all have emotions, selfishness, love and hate, and ugly human nature.
Everyone has preconceived ideas, such as labeling a person first, defining one thing in advance, and not putting yourself in others' shoes.
Empathy with one's own emotions is ineffective.
Even in a very strong emotion of love and hate, I can't empathize at all.
I remember telling myself every time before, don't be as knowledgeable as those who can't speak well in the comment area.
I used to call them bullies and spitters. Every time I have this kind of emotion and label for them, I still can't control my emotions and put myself in the other's shoes when I see them say something unpleasant. I have to scold them, hang them, report them and black myself to death.
Now I call people who say they are disobedient in the comment area as people with different ideas without feelings, and I have no feelings for them. I just think that everyone's education and experience are different, and they can't reach * * * knowledge.
Now I won't be angry at all, let alone relieved.
Without emotional empathy, you can understand many people and things.
five
Those who come will be filled with others.
When having a buffet with friends, you will find that some people always help others fix delicious food first, and then pack it themselves.
This kind of person may be due to family education, and he knows that there must be someone else in his heart.
Hu Xueyan said that he misses others during the day and himself at night.
It means to consider other people's needs first, put other people's affairs in mind, help others solve problems, and put their own affairs last.
We don't need to put everyone in, it's too tired.
But your important leaders, your customers, your key colleagues, your family, you should always keep them in mind and take doing things for them as a habit. After a long time, you will have a very good interpersonal environment, and many people will help you support you.
There are really not many people who have others in mind, and you can do it well, which has exceeded 99%.