A really good image is not necessarily to do beauty, wear famous brands and put on airs, but to naturally show relaxed, confident and casual elegance.
1. Appearance: good living habits+good collocation.
Ensure sleep.
People who haven't had enough sleep for a long time have decadent eyes and yellow hair and can't afford to do anything.
In this case, no girl will think you have a good image except burying your love for your family.
Sleep is always the best cosmetics and nutrition. If you suffer from insomnia for a long time, see a doctor immediately.
Replenish water
Water is the lubricant of human body. People who lack water for a long time have dry skin and decadent expression.
Water is also a sedative to control human body temperature. If you can't always ensure your normal hydration, with the increase of body temperature, people will have symptoms such as inattention, headache, irritability and depression, which will not only completely collapse the image of the whole person, but also seriously affect people's normal work and life.
Do you believe that people around you who meet the above symptoms have the habit of not drinking water?
Don't use "too busy" as an excuse not to drink water.
Don't drink water, eat some fruit and use some hydrating cosmetics.
Product time, lack of water is a loss that you really can't make up.
What kind of collocation is attractive?
Whether in the workplace or in love, your clothes should try to convey such a message:
I am a reliable person, and going out with me won't make you feel embarrassed.
From this perspective, a simple and clean white shirt that conforms to the mainstream aesthetics is definitely more acceptable to the majority of the opposite sex than a colorful hip-hop suit.
Coordination is the premise of everything.
Why are local tyrants? Because they are wearing simple and rude clothes, the famous brands piled on their bodies are neither suitable nor harmonious, and naturally neither fish nor fowl.
Therefore, before rushing into a fashion shop to be a clown, measure your measurements and pants length, write them down on your mobile phone, and then read more fashion magazines, so that you can keep a heart when buying clothes and know what suits you.
If you don't have patience, you can also ask the tailor to measure you and then listen to their opinions.
Then, find a decent barber shop and ask a professional barber to design a hairstyle suitable for you according to your hair quality and face shape.
Don't think that money is not worth spending. Compared with the expenses of inviting girls to dinner and giving gifts to leaders, the money is nothing.
Cleanliness is more important than you think
Bankers have a rule that the length of nails should not exceed one millimeter, so as to leave a clean and capable impression on customers.
Therefore, a clean appearance conveys not only good living habits, but also the rigor and reliability of the whole person.
Check your face, shave your beard, buy some skin care products and take care of freckles and greasy skin.
Then look at your clothes carefully and deal with all the stains and wrinkles.
You should remember that even if a dish is delicious, if it is dirty, people will not have an appetite.
Simple and versatile styles are the most effective.
Working and studying so hard, I have to take time to clean up my personal hygiene. I really don't have much time to choose clothes.
Moreover, if a man dresses too enchanting, it will inevitably be exaggerated.
So simple and versatile styles are the best.
Solid color slim shirt, not too many patterns, the lower body with trousers, jeans, khaki pants, a pair of casual shoes, the whole person's temperament is clean and neat.
Wear woolen coats in autumn and winter, and pay attention to the colors of gray, camel and navy.
Don't always wear black, it will be too boring, not only too monotonous, but also boring your date.
2. Behavior: confident, natural and calm.
Many people take it for granted that the "image problem" is "looking at the face", which is not comprehensive. In fact, when a person walks far away/appears in front of you, the first thing you can notice is definitely not his face, but his walking/standing/sitting posture.
There are a few tips to help you improve your posture:
Always practice standing with your back against the door (the wall is not recommended, it is too hard).
Try to keep your calves, hips, shoulder blades and head close to the door. This exercise will make your back straighter and stand upright.
Correct posture is not only pleasing to the eye, but also often practiced with "self-discipline", "appropriateness" and "reliability" as the highlights.
It's not hard to explain why girls prefer military elder brother.
When reading a book/mobile phone, try to hold the things in your hand as high as possible to avoid bending your head/neck forward for a long time. It looks like a goose from the side, which is not only ugly but also stupid.
When sitting, your legs naturally diverge, not come together. This posture is relaxed and natural, with tension, which will convey the signal of "confidence and calmness".
When sitting face to face with girls, don't twist your fingers, which will make you nervous and lack self-confidence;
Don't always cross your fingers. It looks cool, but it makes the atmosphere too serious.
The best way is to put it on the table naturally. If you really can't control it, put it under the table.
Control the frequency/intensity of your speech. You certainly don't want girls to appreciate the way you spit and splash water.
After the date, boys should get up first, not let girls get up first-according to custom, those who get up first have to wait for those who get up later, which is obviously an opportunity for boys to show gentlemanly manners.
On the other hand, girls don't like being too active. They like to be guided.
3. Temperament: the external expression of exquisite life attitude.
Temperament is not a dress, a hairstyle, but an external expression of your attitude towards life.
In other words, a good temperament needs long-term practice and cultivation.
The following habits help you develop a more popular temperament:
Get out of the closed environment
People are social people and need to keep in touch with others and exercise their communication skills and adaptability.
People who have shut themselves up for a long time always speak and do things with an unspeakable constraint and awkwardness.
I hesitated at the party, unable to say what I wanted to say and afraid of what I wanted to do. Not only will you be wronged, but others will not feel better.
This image of fear of hands and feet is the most romantic in love poems, but in real love, only losers are left.
Get out of your closed security area, touch people, hit the wall, and try to run in.
If you are afraid of wrestling, you will never learn to walk.
Say no to things you can't do.
Elegant people can stay calm, not because they are omnipotent, but because they clearly know what they can and cannot do.
When you get along with girls, you should learn to refuse and admit your shortcomings frankly-not to make a fool of yourself.
Girls are not stupid, they can tell who is really confident and who is swollen and fat.
Just to please yourself.
Yes, please others, of course, can achieve harmony, but the other party will only regard you as a bad person and will not treat you equally.
If you earn respect by kindness, you will be promoted to Rice.
A person who knows how to make himself comfortable will not feel that life is painful and depressing, and his mentality can be correct, his attitude can be peaceful, and his temperament can be confident and elegant.
Don't give yourself negative time
Negativity is a spiritual opium. If you get it, you can't quit.
A negative attitude not only prevents you from working and living normally, but also makes your temperament low and obscene. The whole person looks full of yin, and others are afraid to get close to you.
So, unless your melancholy can make money, don't always make yourself melancholy.
But then again, if a person always commits suicide with depression to make money, how miserable he has to live.
If you find yourself depressed, you should contact your friends in time, then play ball, vent and do something. In short, don't leave opportunities for your depression.
There is plenty of time, as long as you don't collapse, there is bread, and so are girls.
Move out of your parents' house.
Too many boys choose to live with their parents after work in order to save money and trouble.
Therefore, you should have packed your clothes and packed your things yourself and left them to your parents.
When it's time to talk about life and hobbies with friends, you can only listen to your parents at home;
When you should have learned to plan your life and deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, you listened to your parents' opinions too much-
It seems that these boys are very mature and take care of their families, but in fact, they are still very naive, because you can never be independent.
Moreover, parents' views are more traditional after all, and the pursuit of young people's lives is probably incomprehensible.
If you live with your parents, you may have a hard time living a good life.
A person's real maturity and self-confidence should be calm and calm after the world, not the daily necessities under the protection of parents.
If you live with your parents all the time, you will not only be easily assimilated by your parents, but also lose the vigor and delicacy of young people, and you will be in danger of becoming a mother-in-law boy.
Let your strength support your image.
Finally, I still want to mention that without the support of strength, all exquisiteness is a castle on a sand dune.
Even if you can achieve the above nine points, if you can't always do a good job and don't have enough strength and hardware, your exquisite image won't last long.
No matter which way you choose, you can't do without improving yourself. Really powerful people are not worried about chasing girls because they have confidence, capital and ability to attract girls.