What can I do to get my partner to be honest with me?

To get your partner to be honest, you need to be honest first. You can try the following methods to establish an open and respectful communication environment:

1. Listen to each other's thoughts and feelings, and don't criticize or belittle each other's views.

2. Keep a positive attitude and don't overreact or blame each other's mistakes.

Establishing the same values and goals can help you better understand each other's behaviors and decisions.

4. Try to ask some non-aggressive questions to better understand each other's needs and expectations.

5. Respect each other's privacy and personal space, and don't interfere or control each other's behavior excessively.

Through these methods, you can establish an intimate, frank and respectful relationship, so that your partner will feel more comfortable and safer and willing to share their thoughts and feelings with you.