At that time, children my age were playing outside and I was always doing endless housework. Even if I can go out, I have to take my sister with me all the time. After years of persistence, my sister finally grew up, and I finally got rid of that fidgety life. Because of poor academic performance, I entered the county town to work early.
At that time, I was a waiter in a restaurant for less than half a year, and a male colleague confessed to me. His family also lives in the countryside, but the conditions at home are relatively better. His father has a small truck for transportation. He was the first person to express his love to me. Of course I won't refuse him. I decided to get along with him for a while first, and if it is suitable, I will marry him and start a family.
After less than two years together, I finally recognized him from the bottom of my heart. He is sincere to me. He has never lied to me after spending so long with me. And he is very attentive, and he keeps everything I say in mind. With his consent, I confessed our love affair to my parents. His parents were very satisfied with him and offered to meet his family to discuss our marriage.
Although I have only worked in the county for more than two years, I already like the life in the county, so I only have one requirement for my future husband, that is, to buy me a new house in the city. So my parents' first request to my husband's family is to buy a new house, but as locals, we all know how much it will cost to buy a house in the city, so out of understanding, I suggest that as long as my husband's family buys a house, I don't have to pay the bride price, and I will pay for the house decoration in the future.
Finally, my husband's family also approved our agreement, and then they managed to buy us a house less than 90 square meters in the county. At that time, my husband's name was written on the house, and I didn't care too much. After all, we are husband and wife. Afterwards, I asked my parents to give me some money. Two months later, I finally decorated my new house.
Half a month after moving into the new house, we officially held a wedding. After I got married, I lived in my new house. I am very happy. Although I am penniless, I am still full of confidence in the future. But this day lasted less than a week, and my mother-in-law came to our house with her brother-in-law. Her meaning is very clear. She has spent all her money on buying us a house, so they also want to use our wedding room when her brother-in-law gets married.
Only then did I regret my original decision. I shouldn't have let my in-laws buy me a house in the first place. Now I really don't know how to end such a thing. I do know that my husband's family has no money to prepare a wedding room for my brother-in-law, but I don't want to leave my wedding room for others to use. If I don't want a new house first, then I want a bride price, then I won't be subject to people now if I make money to buy a house in the future. In the end, I had no choice but to give them my house first, and I will go back to live after my brother-in-law's wedding. You said, am I doing the right thing?